Is Zambia allergic to winning?

I am personally tired of losing soccer games. Just when I thought we were headed for victory with our female teams, reality set in. Why do we falter at the last hurdle? Having qualified to the finals, it is painful that we should come out empty handed. I don’t understand why. Somebody help me understand please. Our teams get us excited by winning preliminary games and when we are geared for victory, the teams falter. This is too much for me. What are we to do to win please mwebantu. And the coach should not even give empty praises. The team let us down. Kwasila. In football, it is either you win or lose especially when playing in a final. I should just stop supporting the Zambian teams. Too much bp rising for nothing.