Creating a relationship with God to lead children

FOR the next few weeks, my friend, Christa Skipper, will share some parenting tips. Below are her words.

My husband and I have four children and live in America. We don’t “have it all together” and we are still learning as we raise our children. Over the next three weeks, I will share with you some of the things we have learned as we seek to raise children who love God, love others and share the good news about Jesus.

First, to raise children who love God and live according to His principles, our children must know God. We can teach lessons and principles from the Bible and they may know a lot about God, but knowing him personally is a choice they each have to make. For example, I may know facts about the president, but do I actually know him personally? No, I don’t. The same is true when we are raising children to know God. We teach them about him, but they must choose to love and trust him for themselves.

We teach our children about knowing God by teaching these four things: First, you are not an accident. You were created by God and for God. He wants you to choose a relationship with him.

Secondly, we have all abandoned God. When we choose to sin (and everyone does), we are choosing to turn away from God. God is perfect and without sin, so he cannot have a relationship with us as long as we have sin in our lives. Next, we teach that God has approached us through Jesus. The only way for us to have a relationship with God is through Jesus. When he died on the cross, he was punished for all of our sin. He died in our place so that we could have eternal life instead of eternal punishment for sin. He became the way or the bridge, for us to have a relationship with God.

Lastly, we must admit and accept Jesus by faith. We have to admit that we are sinners and accept the reality that Jesus died in our place and was resurrected. When we do that, God gives us abundant life on earth and eternal life after we are gone.

As parents, we have to have a relationship with God through Jesus and lead our children to do the same. We cannot lead our children somewhere that we haven’t been ourselves. For us, a relationship with Jesus is the foundation for all that we do and teach in our home.

After establishing that our children know God, we focus on parenting with the end in mind. Even as they are young children we are always asking, “what is the end result we hope to see in our children and how can we get there?”

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