The Sunday Mail (Zimbabwe)

Dumped for another woman

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I ENJOY reading your column and I have personally learnt a lot from it. I broke up with my boyfriend and we rekindled our relationsh­ip after two years. I moved in with him and his family. Little did I know that he was going out with another girl. All his brothers were against the idea of us getting back together again but I learnt about this after the incident I am writing to you about. After I was introduced to his mother everything seemed normal. I got comfortabl­e and began to feel settled with his family. I was very close to one of his sisters and she would tell me all the gossip.

When I found that he was dating someone else I was very disappoint­ed and spoke to him about it. He apologised and assured me that he loved me so much and I forgave him. The family was divided, although most of his relatives preferred the other girl. I really cannot put a finger as to why they were not so keen to embrace me. I was so sure my boyfriend would stand by me since akanditsva­ga ega after our first break up. My boyfriend told me that he wanted to bring the other girl for introducti­ons. I told him it was a joke in bad taste and I would be pushed to the extreme if he did that.

Believe it or not this girl came and I exploded but was unable kuti ndimupfeke­dze size because vanhu vakandibat­a. I had a second plan up my sleeve. I went to his place of work and we had a very bad verbal fight. His family was so upset about the confrontat­ion especially his brothers. He told me point blank that he was done with me since he did not know what I was capable of doing next. He later said he would think about it but he is still dating the other girl and they look happy. My problem now is I cannot move on my heart is so broken. I just cannot find love with anyone else. I have been single for a year but I am still hurt. I am seeing someone now

AQUARIUS (January 20 to February 18): You could feel pulled in different directions by various interests, your friends, or certain responsibi­lities you are currently dealing with. But with the Sun now in Aquarius, it is time to ask yourself what you want. What course of action could you take now that would reaffirm your core strengths? As Mars enters your sector of communicat­ion, the answers may come through engaging in those interests you are most passionate about. A decision made this weekend could leave you feeling more at ease.

PISCES (February 19 to March 20): Going with friends to a movie or other cultural event could prove very interestin­g, especially if it encourages you to explore your creative urges. And with Venus currently in your sign, this can be a golden opportunit­y to experiment with a skill or talent that might prove very enriching in the future. Later, Mars shifts into your personal financial sector to encourage a more proactive stance to dealing with issues. It could require some courage to sort out money matters.

ARIES (March 21 to April 19): You may have felt somewhat lacklustre in recent weeks, with your focus more inward than usual. This phase may also have coincided with opportunit­ies to clear away emotional baggage and deal with complex issues that needed time and space to resolve. However, as Mars, your personal planet, strides into your sign on Friday, you may begin to feel much more energised and determined. The New Moon could bring a call to move in new circles, paving the way for fresh opportunit­ies.

TAURUS (April 20 to May 20): As Venus continues its journey through your social sector, this first month of 2017 may be a leading one for making new friends and acquaintan­ces. Whether you want to have more fun, find love, or network for other reasons, it is likely been a very productive time. Things could change from this Friday, though, as Mars enters a quieter sector of your chart. Here, it could stir up your psyche and empower you to let go of any issues holding you back.

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