Ways to get organised for good

BEING organised is a skill that not everyone is born with, but it is a something one can learn. Seeing clutter causes some people to feel overwhelmed and paralysed with the fear of not knowing where to start. Sometimes it is easier to choose a path of inaction because you do not know the next step.

Taking things slow and being kind to yourself during the process can take some of the fear out of getting organised. Do not feel anxious about it.

Decluttering can also bring about feelings of shame and guilt, which are usually manifested because we assign emotional attachments to our possessions. As you consider getting rid of something, your thoughts might turn to the family member or friend who gave it to you, which can make you feel guilty even if the object is outdated or broken.

Guilt can also arise if you have clothing you bought for a special occasion, such as a honeymoon, that you will never wear again because it is not your style or does not fit right anymore. But toss items that no longer suit you or consider donating.

Set a schedule

Humans naturally crave a sense of accomplishment, whether that is achieved through completing a crossword puzzle, learning a new skill or tidying up around the house. Sticking to an organising schedule can boost feelings of productivity as you check items off your to-do list. Remember that your plan does not have to be strict or detailed to be effective; it can simply be used to create a better sense of control over your day.

Do daily 15-minute projects

To conquer a disorganised home in quick daily bursts, pick a short task to do each day. Finishing one to-do will give you a sense of accomplishment that can help motivate you to take on another small project tomorrow.

These small tasks can be as simple as sorting mail, organising your sock drawer, cleaning out your medicine cabinet or conquering that dirty sink.

Break larger projects into sections

Start small to avoid getting overwhelmed by sizeable tasks. For example, if you want to organise your kitchen, start by cleaning out your pantry.

Focus first on throwing away expired items or donating shelf-stable items you will not use, then work on arranging like items together the following day (store breakfast foods, condiments and grains on separate shelves, for example). If you want to tackle your closet, you start by evaluating what your lifestyle is like today and if your wardrobe reflects it.

Acknowledge that styles, our bodies and even our work environments can change over time. Only hang on to things you love and those that are meaningful to you. Try not to get stuck on aspirational thoughts about the clothing you are going to wear someday.

Get the kids involved

Whether you have kids, grandchildren or nieces and nephews around the house, it is never too early to teach children how to organise. Putting away should be part of the play.

Encouraging kids to get involved can help you let go of perfectionism, appreciate their efforts and value the input of young ones. The more you can involve kids and get them to think creatively, the more they will be willing to participate.

Donate or sell unwanted items

Now that you have cleaned out your cabinets and closets, the final step to staying organised is parting ways with your old stuff. To get rid of unwanted items, start with your inner circle.

Ask friends or family if they want anything, spending extra attention to family heirlooms.

Another option is to find a charity you want to support. Donating to a cause that is meaningful to you will make it easier to part with something since you know that you are helping someone in need. You could also sell the items.

As you start organising, remember that creating a functional home that works with your lifestyle is key. It should be a reflection of who you are and what you love. A good way to keep that up is by organising seasonally. — bhg.com