Have Fun!

Remember to include fun.

You can incorporate wild primal sex within your sexual repertoire also. Or try this activity. This is super healthy and a fun way to open up the conversation around fantasy and naughty play. I call it the Yah Blah Jar! This is a jar that each person contributes to by placing pieces of folded paper into the jar with one word that describes a fantasy or concept for play. Each week you take one word out of the jar. You must set the intention of no judgment and remember this is just for fun.

If you pull a word out that doesn’t resonate with you, it becomes a ‘blah’ word and is thrown out without discussion. If it’s a ‘yah’ word you can share with each other what you love about the idea of acting out the fantasy or the excitement around that type of play. Laughter is a great medicine especially in the bedroom.