IN THE STARS

Being constantly up for critique is a grind, but at least you can take heart in the fact that this is a direct result of being known, significant and integral to the lives of others. You’ll be entering into new challenges, and you could really use a coach. There are behaviours that will be expected, and it will pay to know what they are and exactly how to execute them. There’s an ancient part of your brain that couldn’t care less about your hopes and dreams. It wants what it wants – and now. It’s irrational and extremely strong. Success depends on your ability to trick it. Should you punish yourself for a mistake? Your aim is to avoid repeating it, and you think the harshness would help you remember. It might motivate you in the short term, but long term would do the opposite. You know what you want with great clarity and detail. You can see it in your imagination. Taking the time to visualise this will help you have the willpower to overcome obstacles and prevail in weaker moments. Get on your own side. It’s important on days such as today, when you’re taking on something new. Remind yourself you’re just as worthy as anyone else who’s done this before. With confidence, you’ll excel. Love is a very real human need, but you can’t eat it. However, with a degree of contentment, care and a sense of belonging, you will be relaxed, clever and resilient enough to figure out how to make money. One great thing about the past is that it got you here. Another great thing about it is that the bad parts are over. So bless it and leave it back there, where it belongs. Better days are ahead. To realise our full potential, our ego needs to shrink, not grow. The desire to feel special is understandable, yet no one should have to feel superior in order to feel worthy of respect and love. Take an understanding approach to yourself. Your suffering won’t lessen if you’re hard on yourself. You won’t overcome perceived shortcomings by merely demanding it. Try self-compassion instead. Accept yourself with an open heart. The need to assess how you’re measuring up is exhausting and benefits no one, least of all you. Drop it and enjoy the sense of “oneness” with others that follows. The correctness of an action may be difficult to discern right now, as there are many facets to consider. Think in terms of doing what’s helpful and what’s useful instead of merely what’s correct.