ALLISON DUBOIS
KEEP THE HAPPY VIBES UP WHEN LOOKING FOR LOVE, SAYS ALLISON
QPlease can you ask my parents why they both had to leave so suddenly and whether I was to blame? Do they know I tried my best to make them think of themselves for a change and that I so love and miss them? Sorry for all the questions Allison, but no other medium can answer this.
Celina, via email.
ACelina, your parents lived life their way. They fell in love and had a family. Your parents know that you love them. Do you feel guilty for not being around for them more? Because that’s baggage that the living place on their own shoulders. The deceased don’t give it a second thought. They’ve moved on to a place of contentment. You’re not to blame for their passing. It’s time to give yourself a break and show your parents you honour them by living your life without fear. Your parents would want you to be happy.
QMy beautiful 18-year-old son was killed recently in a hit-and-run. I miss him so very much and need to know that he is safe and cared for on the other side and that he is proud of me. We had a very loving relationship and I am going to start a scholarship in his name. Are you able to contact Tyler and make sure he is not alone. I’m so worried about him, even now.
Jeynell, via email.
AJeynelle, I am so sorry that your son’s life was taken by someone’s selfish actions. I have an 18-year-old daughter, and I can’t imagine enduring such pain. I assure you that Tyler isn’t alone – grandparents and greatgrandparents always step forward to receive the children who pass. Young people are also met by other young people who have passed tragically. I’m sure everyone who knew Tyler was rocked to the core by his passing – my sense is that he was easy to like. Remember, every day is a good day because it’s a day closer to you seeing him again and you will, see him again. You’re moving towards him, not away from him.
QI am 84 years old and have had a lot of family pass. On my side I do not have anyone left. I lost two daughters at birth, one son in a motorbike accident, one daughter, my dearest brother and my mum to cancer. Can you tell me if my loved ones are at peace now? Kate, NSW.
AKate, you’ve suffered more than your fair share of loss in your life. When adults pass they revert to the age they were the happiest. Your mother is no longer elderly and she’s free of poor health. Same goes for your brother, he’s young and strong again. You’ll be drawn to a young photo of your mother looking vibrant and beautiful, that’s her way of saying, ‘This is me now!’. Your son is still very active and looking for adventure. As for your babies, their souls are born in other children in your family – nieces/nephews or grandchildren – but they find a way into the family. When you come to the end of your life, you’ll start to feel them all around you, waiting for you.