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TRUST IN MESSAGES SENT BY OTHER LIFE AND FINDING LOVE

- ALLISON DUBOIS

QHi Allison, Is there love out there for me? I haven’t been in a relationsh­ip for years and am so lonely. I need to know that the future isn’t hopeless.

Mary Collinson, via email.

AMary, you’re not alone. There are many lonely people out there and seven billion people in the world, so, your odds of finding someone are good! The people who have

the best chance to find love are the ones who put themselves out there, socialisin­g and travelling. If you just go to work and then go home, you’re pretty hard for a single fella to run into. In order to increase your chances of finding love, you have to participat­e in life. If I hadn’t been in a college bar, being a bad girl, I would’ve never met the love of my life!

Finding love involves risk – risking getting hurt, risking being disappoint­ed, risking stepping out of your comfort zone. Start by participat­ing in activities you like – ballroom dance lessons you always wanted to take, group trips to an exciting place on your bucket list, cooking classes, group activities in general. The more you love yourself and continue to grow as a person, the easier you make it for a great catch to catch you.

QHi Allison, I lost my beautiful girl Gemma in July last year and I am devastated. I would love to know if she is OK and will

I see her again? Not long after her death a bird appeared on my window in the morning, that had not before. I have seen it at least once a week and it seems like it is trying to give me a message. So many people have told me Gemma sent the bird to me

because she can see how much I am missing her.

Belindah Thompson,

via email.

ABelindah, my condolence­s for your loss. Birds are commonly sent by the other side, they are quite symbolic. They represent being free from the body that betrayed you. I’m sure Gemma’s letting you know that she’s free and she’s all around you, peeking in on your life. Get a special bird feeder for that bird – this lets Gemma know that she has a place in your life still, is very welcome and very wanted. When you pass, Gemma will be waiting for you, along with everyone else who loves you.

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