READER Q&A

Q I’d like to ask what the future holds for us. – CHRISTINE BECKETT

A DEAR CHRIS, I can see that you are all things to all people. You are very connected to your family, and you always put everyone else’s needs before your own. Your mum and nanna are coming through to me as I write this, and they want you to start to value yourself more.

Your mum is telling me that you are a “chip off the old block” and she doesn’t want you to experience the same challenges that she did. I also get numbness in my feet when I tune into you, which indicates circulatory issues. Now is the time for you to start to focus on yourself and look after your health.

Your husband is the life of the party, but I can see that you are more of a homebody and you love to have your family around, whereas I can see that as much as your husband loves the family, he also loves his freedom and time with friends. Sometimes I feel that he needs to understand that he should also put your happiness before others. I can see that at times, there is a distance between you both as he is so busy with work and his social commitments that he forgets that behind every great man, there is a greater woman.

I feel that your mother and nanna, in spirit, are very strong influences in your life. Even though they have both passed, they are still very connected to you from the spirit realms. As I write this, I hear your mother telling me how important it is that I let you know how much you mean to her. Remember, she is only ever a thought away.

I get a sense of you yearning to be by the sea, and I get the feeling of travelling down to the South Coast in NSW. I can see a caravan park and your mum is telling me that this is your happy place. It is important for you to embrace these times.

Creating memories with family is incredibly important as these are the things that stay with us forever.