READER Q&A

Q My husband has not worked for nearly a year due to illness. I only work part-time and I am stressed about our finances. I am sick of carrying the load and I wonder if he will ever return to work. Is he as unwell as he claims, or is he just enjoying his life with no work? – AMETHYST A DEAR AMETHYST, I can understand how difficult it has been for you. Unfortunately, a lot of people have had health challenges during the pandemic and it has made it hard to get back on track. I do see your husband was initially challenged with his health, but I do see he is taking advantage of you and enjoying this stress-free lifestyle.

I see he is a lovely man, but I also see he doesn’t seem to realise how much pressure he is putting on you. I can understand why you would be feeling frustrated and concerned about your finances. I can see you are such a kind person and not someone who complains. Unfortunately, I can see you need to have the conversation with your husband about him helping you again – even if it is in a part-time role.

The longer he is off work, the harder it will be for you to convince him to return. I can see if something doesn’t happen in the next few months, you’ll have some very big decisions to make. I see you will find it very challenging. You do deserve better.

I feel the presence of two beautiful beings in spirit. One is your father. The second energy is telling me you were very close. I feel she is your sister. They are standing behind you, showing me they are giving you strength and acting as your spiritual wings.

Your sister wants me to say you are not his mother, and he needs to treat you with the respect you have afforded him.

I see if you do find the strength to move on, you will finally find happiness, peace and abundance.

You are extremely gifted and it is now time to put yourself first. Believe in your own inner power.

Once you take the first step, everything else will slowly move into place. Believe!