We argue all the time

Get out now

Get out before it completely mentally destroys you. If he loved you he’d be supporting you and you wouldn’t feel like you’re having ‘to take care of him’. He’s an adult, he can take care of himself. Ange Elliott

He’s not happy

Love isn’t all you need to sustain a close relationship. You need two individuals committed to making it work. It sounds like he is not happy living together, but sadly isn’t mature enough to discuss it with you. You deserve better. Heidi McGrogan

Wrong for you

You deserve to have someone to cherish you. You don’t want to waste your life on someone who is wrong for you. You’ll regret it. JoAnn Marucci

Move on

If you accept disrespect it will continue and get worse. Time to move on for your self worth. Wendy Curtis

Need your own life

Get a job and hobbies of your own. You don’t need to stay home to take care of him and clean the house. Tell him he needs to help with housework. When you have your own things you’ll have more to talk about. Maybe you see each other too much. Stella Wissemes

Gut feeling

It sounds like he’s taking you for granted and thinks very little of you. Go with what your gut is telling you. And leave now rather than waiting until you hate him. Dorothy Kirby

Housemaid

He wants a housekeeper, not a partner. I’ll give you two words… leave now! Sue Wright

He needs to open up

A conversation is needed before you give up. It’s hard when you move in together –there’s always a period of adjustment. There may be some underlying issue he’s not been able to talk about. Arrange a quiet night out and ask how he’s feeling. Hopefully he’ll open up and you can work it out either way. Catherine Dimmer

He’s resentful

The other person can get resentful of

having to always pay out for you. You need a job. But I think he’s over you and trying to shake you off. Betty Wright

You’re trapped

It sounds like he’s moved you away from family and friends so you don’t have a support network and feel trapped. Go and stay with someone you trust and clear your head. Janine O’Mara

Deserve better

He’s treating you like a servant. You deserve better. Suzy Dajic

Go home

He’s no longer interested. Since you don’t have a job, move back home. Wendy Bell