Lifting the veil on being a frugal wedding guest

HAVING a wedding is expensive – and so is attending one. The average wedding guest is spending close to $500, according to wedding directory Wedded Wonderland.

That includes an average $140 for gift registry items, plus travel costs and clothes, it says.

But there are ways for guests to save money, wedding expert Wendy El-Khoury says, without ruffling feathers or looking cheap.

“If you’re attending several weddings in a year, start working out a budget for the big three expenses: travel, clothing and gifts,” she said.

Engaged couples now often have a global guest list and the wedding festivities may not take place where they live.

“Cut down the cost of flights by comparing airlines online and booking ahead of time, when it’s generally cheaper,” Ms El-Khoury said.

“Many venues will offer an accommodation package for guests, which means the cost per night for a room is cheaper. But you’ll need to inquire.”

If you’re attending with friends, consider reserving a villa or private home.

Organise similar landing times with other attendees so transport can be shared.

While wedding attire can be a hang-up for guests, renting clothes for the event can deliver huge savings. Designer dress businesses such as Dresses For Hire will cover the cost of dry cleaning and send the outfit to you with a return bag.

“Guests can rent the perfect look, which is much cheaper than going out and buying a new dress,” Ms El-Khoury said.

Vogue Financial director and financial adviser Paul Giordano said guests should consider contributing to larger, more substantial gifts with other guests.

‘If you know where the couple are staying for their honeymoon, purchase a couple’s massage Vogue Financial director Paul Giordano

“It’s perfectly OK to split the cost of an item with another guest or two,” he said.

“If you know where the couple are staying for their honeymoon, purchase a couple’s massage or restaurant voucher – that’s a really personal gift.”

The same goes for guests who tick “no” on the RSVP card.

“Still send a gift if you’re unable to attend at late notice. A small gesture of appreciation would be well-received,” Mr Giordano said.