Free from bullying

BULLYING is not cool so why do people do it? Generally, those who bully others do it because they like having power over others; want to be popular; are trying to get attention; assume that bullying is acceptable; see it as a way of communicating their own feelings of fear, anxiety or jealousy.

It may be done because the target or victim is perceived as being different – in culture, ethnicity, gender, sexuality, ability, religion, physical appearance, age or economic status.

However, being different doesn’t make it OK to be picked on. Everyone has the right to feel safe and be treated with respect. Be part of the solution

Most people do not bully others and are not bullied themselves, but they may see or know about bullying that goes on.

These are the bystanders – the audience the person doing the bullying wants so they can feel powerful.

During most bullying incidents, bystanders are observed to be present, watching what goes on but not getting involved directly.

By doing nothing, laughing at the incident, cheering or encouraging the bully, they are supporting the bad behaviour.

Bystanders need to take responsibility and respond to bullying behaviour by speaking up. But they are usually not sure if they should help or what they can do to help. FACT: According to the bullying-noway website, peers are present as onlookers in 85 per cent of bullying interactions.