Stay alert to changes in kids’ behaviour
WITH the kids back in school for another year, there’s one pretty big danger parents need to be aware of.
It doesn’t take much to arm yourself with the knowledge that could protect your child from online bullies.
Nick FitzGerald, senior research fellow at ESET, shares four warning signs to watch for.
1. Unexplained physical changes
Look at your child. Take a few minutes to take in their appearance and reflect on any changes. Have they lost weight? Have they had trouble sleeping or do they look particularly stressed in the mornings? If so, take the time to check in with your child and make sure there’s nothing bothering them.
2. Mood swings
If you have teens, mood swings may come with the territory, but that doesn’t mean we should ignore them. Noticeable nervousness, sudden mood swings and snappy answers to questions can also be a warning sign. Allow these sort of actions to prompt a conversation. Do not accept responses such as “good” or “fine”.
Mr FitzGerald suggests parents, carers and educators should probe deeper and create a safe space for children to talk about online and in-person interactions.
3. Loss of interest
Is your Minecraft-crazed child suddenly not mining? Or are they no longer as invested in their favourite hobby? Perhaps they’re suddenly distancing themselves from family and friends? This is another sign they may need some help.
4. Quitting social media
This action should set off big alarm bells. Even us adults need some time away from social media, but if your child suddenly deletes their account and quits social media, pay attention and act.