Post-holiday blues? Blame Blue Monday
If you’re struggling to get back into the swing of things, here’s how to combat the holiday comedown
After another back-to-back festive season, many of us were left eagerly anticipating the opportunity to reset for the fresh year ahead, setting goals and targets with renewed purpose and optimism.
But, as our steadfast diets and vigorous training goals begin to wane in light of, well, life, some of us may be left feeling more than a little blue.
January 15 marks the halfway point in a month dedicated to excelling in our New Year’s resolutions.
It’s also known as Blue Monday, a day dubbed by many as the “saddest day of the year”.
But, how legitimate is this concept, and is it all that wise to attribute our feelings of overwhelm and gloom to a single day of the year?
Jacqui Manning is the resident psychologist at Connected Women, an organisation that facilitates friendships for women over 50 through a range of online and inperson events.
Here’s what Manning has to say about the Blue Monday phenomenon, and how to avoid feeling overwhelmed by the new year’s expectations of rejuvenation.
IS BLUE MONDAY A LEGITIMATE THING?
First of all, Blue Monday is not technically a real date we need to be marking in our calendars.
Similar to how Valentine’s Day and Mother’s Day were strategically created to sell chocolates and discount candles, it can be argued
Blue Monday only exists thanks to a savvy marketing team to manipulate our collective desire for purpose through materialism.
But, just because this man-made annual event isn’t as palpable as say, Christmas, doesn’t mean it shouldn’t stand as a reminder of how important it is to check in on the mental health of ourselves and our loved ones around this time of year.
“In times of demanding social engagements and work commitments, it’s common to overlook investing in our wellbeing,” Manning says.
“During hectic periods our selfcare practices can take a back seat, but it’s precisely during these times
that we need them the most.
“Engaging in activities that bring joy, practising mindfulness, and ensuring adequate rest are integral components of maintaining a healthy mental state.”
THE MOST COMMON CAUSES OF BLUE MONDAY
Across the globe, the collective drop in morale around this time of year has been routinely chalked up to seasonal affective disorder, a type of depression dictated by a change in season.
But as we southern hemisphere folk lap up another summer of sunshine, blaming our mid-January blues on the weather feels a little
farfetched. Alas, while our inherent impatience can leave us feeling disappointed with the lack of goal progression we’ve managed to pull off in a fortnight, there are other ways the beginning of a year can leave us feeling overwhelmed.
“A new year is often filled with high expectations, reflection, and new year resolutions,” Manning says.
“As a new year unfolds, it often prompts individuals to assess the past year, which can be difficult if you feel that you haven’t achieved everything you wanted to.”
IT’S NEVER TOO LATE TO REASSESS YOUR GOALS
According to Manning, feelings of disappointment and resentment are often unavoidable when it comes to long-term goal setting.
The best approach? Embark on your New Year’s resolutions with flexibility and selfrespect to avoid hitting a wall by midJanuary.
After all, feeling chained to a timeline is so 2023.
“It is crucial to acknowledge that the process of adhering to resolutions can be more challenging than making them,” she says.
“Individuals should be reassured that encountering difficulties along the way is a natural part of the journey.”
In addition to a flexible approach, it’s important to set yourself up for success at the beginning of the year with realistic and achievable goals and targets.
“Break down larger goals into smaller, manageable steps, making them more attainable and less overwhelming,” Manning suggests.
The psychologist also urges us to consider focusing on the process of achieving our goals, rather than solely the outcome.
“This approach not only provides a more nuanced perspective on success but also fosters a sense of accomplishment throughout your pursuit,” Manning says.