HEIDI & MIKE ‘OUR PASTS BROUGHT US TOGETHER’
The pair have bonded over heartache
Their Byron Bay ceremony left them feeling “magnetised” by each other’s affection, and now Heidi and Mike reveal they wouldn’t have had their TV wedding experience any other way. “She has this pull and I have an attraction to her that I can’t explain,” reveals Mike.
While their marriage has already had several bumps in the road, Heidi insists she has no regrets about the experiment so far. She also tells Woman’s Day she’s happy she opened up about her heartbreaking past, admitting her unconventional childhood has made her who she is today.
“It made me become really independent very quickly!” the Queensland-based radio host tells us during our photoshoot. “It left me taking a long time to rely on people, but I know I can always rely on myself.”
During her Whitsundays honeymoon, Heidi, 38, explained she had a difficult time getting into foster care as an adolescent, which left her feeling alone and abandoned. Eventually she was given government housing during high school, where she lived alone in a one-bedroom flat. She’d get herself to and from school each day, and would work after school.
“The reason I spoke about it on the show was to explain why I was so independent, and maybe explain why it was hindering me,” says Heidi. “While it probably did, I never wanted to stop living my life. I’ve chosen to learn from it.” ”
While Mike’s onscreen response was less than supportive, with the electrician telling his new bride, “I’m not your therapist,” like any couple the pair are working through the ins and outs of their new relationship. “I’m really disappointed to hear it back, it’s embarrassing, and I’m ashamed frankly,” admits Mike.
Not without his own past, Mike, 43, reveals he doesn’t deal well with heartache. “I proposed to a woman when I was 23, she said yes then took off overseas. She had cheated,” says Mike. “That set me up for a long period of trust issues that affected my relationships. I take break-ups badly.”
It seems the couple eventually found common ground and have their eyes on a positive future. Heidi adds, “Mike and I just have this something. It’s unexplainable! unexplainable!”