The Phnom Penh Post

Myanmar’s abandoned elderly given a home

- Marion Thibaut

PARALYSED on one side by a stroke and barely able to speak, Tin Hlaing was left to die at the side of a road – by her own children.

The 75-year-old only survived because a stranger took pity on her as she lay in the street and brought her to the Twilight Villa nursing home on the edge of Yangon.

Her s t or y has become increasing­ly familiar as impoverish­ed Myanmar struggles to cope with a rapidly ageing population that is piling pressure on its already anaemic health system.

Twilight Villa’s vice chair- woman, Khin Ma Ma, said many of the residents, like Tin Hlaing, arrive bewildered and sick after being abandoned by their families.

“She was in a terrible state – disorienta­ted, dehydrated and above all very angry,” Khin Ma Ma told AFP.

“It was impossible to communicat­e with her.”

Set up in 2010, the retirement home already cares for 120 people over the age of 70 and has more than 100 people on its waiting list.

The wards are crowded with beds, all just a few centimetre­s apart, filled with elderly people who sit quietly staring into space or lie huddled under blankets.

On one, a frail old lady whispered into the ear of a smiling plastic doll, her only companion since she moved to the facility from the shed she used to occupy in her family’s back yard.

Khin Ma Ma remembers another woman who was thrown out of a car next to a rubbish dump, where she was found covered in cuts and bite marks from rats. She made it to the nursing home but survived for only a few months.

“Sometimes we find only a small note in their pockets with their name and age. That’s all. When we ask them questions, they can’t even respond,” she said.

“Old people should not be treated like that in a civilised society and those who abandon them should be prosecuted.”

Decades of misrule by a brutal junta, stringent sanctions and ethnic conflict have reduced Myanmar to one of the poorest countries in the world.

Now it is facing a demographi­c crisis that is already squeezing the life out of Asia’s former tiger economies.

The UN estimates some nine percent of the population is currently over 65 but that will surge to a quarter by 2050, outs t r i pping the number of under-15s.

“Economic realities oblige many people to continue heavy manual labour into old age to survive,” said Janet Jackson, the UNFPA’s Myanmar representa­tive.

“This underlines the need for adequate social services and policies that serve the aged.”

Already in tatters after 50 years of underinves­tment by the former junta, Myanmar’s health system is struggling to cope.

Since taking office last year, the new civilian government has set up only one new care facility, exclusivel­y for the over 90s, which receives just 10,000 kyat a month in funding – around $7.

Traditiona­lly most seniors are cared for by their families, but the pressures of poverty, double-digit inflation and rapid urbanisati­on mean more and more people are abandoning their relatives.

“We have nowhere to go. We have come here to wait to die,” said Hla Hla Shwe, who has lived in another facility in Yangon run by monks for the past three years.

“Here we feel less alone and people feed us, thanks to the donations,” the 85-year-old added.

‘Good old days’

But to the east of Myanmar’s commercial capital, one group of actresses is finding solace together in their twilight years.

Set up by former screen queen Nwet Nwet San on a donated piece of land, Mother’s Villa has become a refuge for more than 20 ageing film stars.

“The later years can maybe be very difficult, even for former actresses,” the 77-yearold founder told AFP.

“I saw some people die in terrible conditions, so I decided to set up this place.”

Inside the building the shelves are littered with awards and film memorabili­a, while fading photos of the women dressed in glamorous outfits from their heydays line the walls.

Today they often dress up in the same outfits and makeup for fun, and they have even set up a dance troupe which performs each year at Myanmar’s water festival celebratio­ns.

“I had nowhere to go [but] here I am happy with my friends,” said resident Moe Thida Moe, 73, who recently suffered a stroke.

“It reminds me of the good old days.”

 ?? YE AUNG THU/AFP ?? An elderly resident (left) of the Twilight Villa nursing home gets assistance from two nurses as they help her sit up on her bed at the centre on the edge of Yangon on July 4.
YE AUNG THU/AFP An elderly resident (left) of the Twilight Villa nursing home gets assistance from two nurses as they help her sit up on her bed at the centre on the edge of Yangon on July 4.
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 ?? YE AUNG THU/AFP ?? An elderly resident of the Twilight Villa nursing home smiles as she shows a doll which she keeps as close company at the centre on July 4.
YE AUNG THU/AFP An elderly resident of the Twilight Villa nursing home smiles as she shows a doll which she keeps as close company at the centre on July 4.

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