The Phnom Penh Post

Vietnamese beauty queen funds girls’ dreams

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SKIN-WHITENING, child marriage, a curtailed education: Vietnamese model and literacy campaigner H’Hen Nie has defied traditiona­l expectatio­ns laid on her – and is now determined to show the next generation a different way.

The 2017 Miss Universe Vietnam winner, who hails from the Ede ethnic minority group in the Central Highlands, was 14 years old when her farmer mother suggested she find a husband.

“I was really scared of getting married. At that time I liked to swim, slide down slopes and play in the forest,” the 28-year-old says.

She was being led down the path of many poor, marginalis­ed ethnic minority children in Vietnam – marrying young, dropping out of school, and having a slimmer shot of making it to positions of power compared to the country’s Kinh majority.

But H’Hen n had other plans, ex explaining: “I I was competitiv­e and I loved to study. And I had lots of dreams.”

Today, as the first ethnic minority woman oman to win Vietnam’s crown, own, H’Hen is widely regarded ded as a trailblaze­r, going g on to represent the country untry on Miss Universe’s world orld stage and finishing in the he Top 5.

She is now w an ambassador for global obal nonprofit Room m to Read, which h focuses on girls’ irls’ education in the developing ing world – an issue pulled into sharper focus ocus as the coronaonav­irus exposes oses i n e q u a l i t i e s globally.

A recent Malala Fund report found d

H’Hen Nie taught herself Vietnamese and worked as a maid in Ho Chi Minh City to pave her road to success.

that 20 million more secondary schoolaged girls are at risk of permanentl­y dropping out of school compared to boys by the time the crisis has passed. Charities are also warning that years of progress t a c k l i n g c h i l d m a r - riage is being undone undo as desperate families, plunged into in poverty because of the pandemic, marry young daughters off – meaning mean they are less likely to complete their th education.

Refusing to conform

In Vietnam Vietnam, the legal age to wed is 18, but UNICEF UNI says one in 10 girls are married bef before. Among ethnic groups the figure is a almost double that. Growing up with six siblings in a traditiona­l stilt house, H’Hen knew from a you young age what was expected of o her due to her gender an and ethnicity – but she defiantly fi rejected the pressures to conform.

Even beauty became a battlegrou­nd.

Colourism – prejudice a against darker skin tones – is pervasive across Asia. Tod Today, in the aftermath of the global Black Lives Matter protests, a backlash has begun against archaic beliefs that fair complexion­s are more desirable.

But even as a young girl, H’Hen was ahead of the times. Her mother tried to convince her to use skinwhiten­ing products.

“I refused to take it and would run away to play,” H’Hen remembered. “Teenagers often bought cream that made their faces extremely white . . . but I didn’t want to be like them.”

And while never outright rejecting her mother’s suggestion­s of marriage, she instead turned to her books and taught herself Vietnamese – her passport out of the rural village where only a local dialect was spoken.

A decade later, sitting in a golden, chandelier­ed convention centre in Ho Chi Minh City, H’Hen is helping choose a local designer to dress her Miss Universe Vietnam successor.

Her early days in the bustling city were less glamorous. She worked as a maid to fund her degree in corporate finance, and family too came round to her ambitions.

She says: “My mother started to save money for my studies. It was a huge sacrifice. I think my siblings were perhaps not given that much food – certainly no treats.”

Empowering girls, changing lives

After a couple of years in the country’s commercial hub, she got her break as a model, and was soon thrust into the spotlight as the first ethnic minority woman to win the Miss Universe Vietnam title.

But her win brought out racists – who claimed her skin was too dark for her to be beautiful.

“I got made fun of so much that it became normal,” H’Hen says.

The taunts only increased her determinat­ion to instill confidence and a love of learning in girls from disadvanta­ged families.

“The thing that I couldn’t stand was their comments about my people. I didn’t want others in my community to be criticised because of their skin . . . so I would speak out.”

On the advice of her mother – now her biggest champion – H’Hen poured all of her Miss Universe prize money into scholarshi­p programmes for schoolchil­dren.

Since her win, she has raised tens of thousands of dollars to build libraries in Vietnam’s rural central provinces and supported girls across Asia and Africa to complete secondary school.

H’Hen also mentors older girls who want to pursue their studies.

“I guess I’m a little biased when I meet girls from my community in Ho Chi Minh City,” she laughs.

“If she’s a student, I encourage her to study more. If she’s struggling, I’ll offer to share her tuition fees.”

If they are given the tools to succeed, she says, nothing can hold them back.

H’Hen insistis: “I want to share this message and change some lives.”

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