AND TO ALL A GOOD NIGHTIE ... MELISSA KOSSLER DUTTON
Christmas morning is the perfect opportunity for families to play the matching game
Amy and Kevin Wilson began giving their three sons matching pyjamas at Christmas for a reason: They wanted their little ones to get excited about going to bed so that they, the adults, could get ready for Christmas morning.
Now, more than 15 years later, the pyjamas have become a cherished family tradition, albeit a silly one. The Wilson boys — Jack, 20; Owen, 17; and Sam, 13 — have even pledged to continue the custom with their own families when they are older.
“A lot of people say to me, ‘I just can’t believe you get your kids to do that,’” says Amy Wilson, of Marietta, Ga. “It’s really one of their favourite traditions. They never argue with me about wearing them. They’re excited to see what they are each year.”
Wilson has watched matching holiday garb become a trend thanks to social media. Photos on Facebook and Instagram show a huge variety of styles and patterns.
In addition to traditional pyjamas, Wilson has given her kids Star Wars and animal-themed sleepers. One year, she ordered the infamous bunny suit from the movie A Christmas Story. Another time, everyone received wearable blankets that were popularized by late-night TV commercials.
Matching outfits do make for an ideal photo op, says Danielle Lucia Schaffer, a blogger at citygirlgonemom.com. She dresses her four children in matching or co-ordinating pyjamas every year and stages elaborate photo shoots. The kids generally like the clothing but not the photos, said Schaffer.
In addition to wearing their matching jammies on Christmas Eve and Christmas morning, they put them on for movie nights all winter long. If kids are reluctant to don matching outfits, Schaffer recommends recruiting Dad to help sell the idea.
“It’s really important to get your husband on board,” she says. “When it’s two parents against the (kids), it’s going to work.”
Julie Aluotto of Sharonville, Ohio, says her kids like wearing pyjamas that match their cousins. The two families, who live in different cities, took their outfits to a water park and ran around in them all weekend.
“Two of our kids are adopted from Guatemala, and they certainly didn’t mind matching their cousins,” says the mom of three. “They were loving all that attention.”
Indeed, matching jammies are a bit of a “thing ” at Great Wolf Lodge in Mason, Ohio, says Jason Arthur, the regional director of aquatics. Families wear them to meals throughout the holiday season.
“We’re starting to see it grow more and more each year,” he says. “We have one large family that comes back each year. They get a lot of comments about their matching pyjamas from the other families. Some even want to take pictures with them.”
Matching clothing is a way for families to strengthen their bonds and announce their connectedness, says Dimitris Xygalatas, an anthropology professor who studies rituals at the University of Connecticut. As families become more far-flung, dressing alike at the holidays may be a way to make the annual gatherings more fun and more over-the-top, he says.
“If your family only gets together once or twice a year, it needs to be significant — have more pageantry,” he said. “You need something that says this is a very special occasion. In a way, we’re compensating with a larger quantity of celebration for a lack of frequency.”
Making Hanukkah memorable was Eva Sarachan’s goal when she ordered matching sweaters for her family last year. Sarachan, who lives in Rochester, N.Y., and her fiancé were meeting her sister, who lives in New York City, at her parents’ house in Troy, N.Y.
She designed her own “ugly” sweater similar to the Christmas versions commonly found at stores in December and had it printed at customizedgirl.com. Her family loved the shirts emblazoned with dreidels, menorahs and kittens.
“I thought it would be a cute idea — a nice tradition to start with my family,” Sarachan says. “We all live far apart, and I wanted to make the holidays extra-special.”
They never argue with me about wearing them. They’re excited to see what they are each year.