Separation takes toll on family

When Martin and his partner separated in May, he took a hard financial hit.

For a few months, she stopped all payments, leaving him as the sole provider for their two children, ages 8 and 16.

Just eight months later, he said the situation is improving, considering the circumstances. He and his ex are talking again, and he said his children are doing all right. “It’s getting better,” he said.

“You need to be able to forgive. If not, you’ll be unhappy for the rest of your life,” Martin said.

He also said that having a good relationship with his children’s mother makes it easier to care for the pair.

“It’s more convenient for that as well.”

His work as head of housekeeping for grocery stores has also become more consistent, and being able to eat at work alleviates some of his costs.

This holiday season, the Montreal Gazette Christmas Fund will help reduce some of Martin’s stress by giving him a $125 cheque. Every winter, the fund helps thousands of people in need in the Montreal area.

He said the money will allow him to treat his children to something special during the Christmas holidays. He mused that he might use the money to take the kids on a trip to Trois-Rivières to see their grandmother.

He said he was surprised to have received the call informing him of the gift, but that it’s greatly appreciated.