ONE MYSTERY DONOR INSPIRES 100 GOOD DEEDS
CHILDREN, CANCER PATIENTS, EVEN WAITRESSES RECEIVE GIFTS
On the first Sunday of December, the Rev. Ron Foster invited his congregants to step up to the altar to receive the bread and wine of Communion — and to receive a US$100 bill.
“Listen to where the Holy Spirit’s leading you,” he said to the stunned congregation as he distributed a stack of money at Severna Park United Methodist Church, in a Baltimore suburb. “Listen to the need that’s around you, that you find in the community. You may be in the right place at the right time to help somebody, because you have this in your hand.”
One hundred congregants walked out into the Advent season, with the money burning a hole in their pockets. One stack of bills totalling US$10,000, dropped off at the church by an anonymous donor, has turned into 100 good deeds.
Ginger ale and soup and warm socks for a cancer patient. Snow pants and gloves so a child with a brain tumour can play outside. Christmas presents for children who are homeless, for children whose parents are struggling with drug addiction, for children whose parents have suffered domestic abuse, for children in the hospital. Cash for dozens of strangers, from waitresses to bus drivers to leaf collectors.
One hundred donations goes a long way. “People have been so thoughtful. The money has just multiplied and blossomed and gone out,” Foster said.
The anonymous donor has been tickled pink to watch the fruit of her gift.
She doesn’t want her name published. Even her own daughter (who picked up one of the US$100 bills at church and chose to send her donation to children in a foreign country) doesn’t know that she’s behind the big gift.
“I wanted to make it about the fun,” she said. “We want to make it about the excitement and the joy of giving, and to give people the experience of giving.”
She came up with the idea this summer, when she was distraught over the death of Heather Heyer, who was protesting against white supremacists and neo-Nazis in Charlottesville, Va. “I just had that heavy weight on my chest. I just felt bummed out and sad about our situation, about humanity in general,” she said. She found herself in a Starbucks, even though her husband makes coffee every day at home. Without really thinking about it, she bought a gift card, and gave it to the cashier. “I want you to use this for everybody who comes in after me, until it’s gone. I want you to treat everybody to a cup of coffee,” she said.
All of a sudden, her depression about Charlottesville lifted. “My mood completely changed,” she said. “It was that excitement, of being able to share with other people.”
That’s what she wanted for everyone at Severna Park United Methodist Church, the church she and her husband started attending when they moved to Severna Park recently. On the first Sunday of Advent, the bills were waiting. Everyone who wanted one at the church’s three services, which collectively host about 550 people each Sunday, was able to take one.
Then the giving spree began. One congregant took a needy fourth-grader on a shopping trip, where he picked out socks and underwear and shoes, plus a gift he could give each of his parents. The boy said it was the best day of his life.
Many congregants decided to add more money of their own — like the one who filled a cart to overflowing with US$275 worth of pet food for the SPCA in Annapolis, Md., and the couple who chipped in another US$100 and paid off items on layaway at Kmart so strangers can take home their Christmas wishes.
One couple helped their seven-year-old daughter create bags of socks, hand warmers and McDonald’s gift cards. When a man approached their car to ask for change, the little girl opened the window and handed out the first of the gift bags, thrilled. Another congregant heard about a program that gives purses to homeless women, and decided to buy 100 items to put inside the purses — soap, shampoo, maxi-pads and more.
The donor behind it all said one of her favourite ideas was Dave Doss’s. He and a friend ordered 10 pizzas and a case of Orange Crush to be delivered to the steps of a Baltimore church where they knew homeless men and women hang out. Then they spent the afternoon having a pizza party with them.
“When you have that US$100 burning a hole in your pocket, you’re looking around. Should I fill that person’s gas tank? Should I buy that person’s groceries? It’s exciting, to have that ability to do that,” the donor said.
PEOPLE HAVE BEEN SO THOUGHTFUL. THE MONEY HAS JUST MULTIPLIED AND BLOSSOMED AND GONE OUT. THERE’S BEEN SO MUCH JOY AND EXCITEMENT JUST SPILLING OVER. — REV. RON FOSTER, SEVERNA PARK UNITED METHODIST CHURCH