Anonymous offers of help may scare seniors

Dear Annie: I am a 77-year-old woman, recently transplanted after 50 years in a different city and province. Due to COVID -19, I am really isolated — alone in my apartment

99 per cent of the time. I go out once a week to shop, and every two or three weeks I’ll go to the laundry room. I live in a building with 400 apartments and probably more than 2,000 people, ranging from seniors to large families to university students. I don’t want to put my family in danger coming near me! Senior services are available, but I like to choose my own food.

In my laundry room, someone put up an offer to help seniors during the crisis. Although that person left phone numbers to tear off, they did not say who they are or in which apartment they live. It may even be someone in the neighbourhood, not a fellow resident.

I got a note in the mail telling me I am “being thought of during this time” and wishing me well. There was no signature on the card or return address on the envelope.

On the surface, these seem like acts of kindness, but instead, they may cause anxiety over and above what seniors are already experiencing being alone and the prime target for this virus. Seniors know to beware, as we are the target of scams. Getting an anonymous note saying someone is thinking of you is creepy in the best of times and more scary now. Thanks but No Thanks!

Dear Thanks but No Thanks!: Those acts sound more like acts of cowardice or, more likely, acts of laziness. If people want to reach out and help someone, they need to let the person know who they are.

Dear Annie: I am a biologist and an admirer of the mouse. I wanted to clarify a few things.

First, you can release mice that you have caught in a live trap. They can be released in surrounding fields or woods, or near shelter like a stone wall. Second, young mice are not called “children,” they are called pups. Third, there are humane ways of getting rid of them. The simplest is using peppermint or ammonia as safe deterrents.

Please, never use glue traps, as they cause the mouse to die a horrible, slow death. Poison is perhaps the worst of all because the dead mouse can then be picked up by dogs, cats, foxes, hawks and owls, which in turn will be poisoned. If you must use a trap to kill them, the old snap trap is the last resort. A Mouse Admirer

Dear Mouse Admirer: While no one wants a wild mouse in their house, I love that you go through humane ways to keep them out.

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