Nurses offer a hand to hold
Dear Annie: We hear so many accounts of sick relatives dying alone in the hospital and family members feeling helpless and guilty. I’m a retired nurse, and I hope I can let these families know that their loved one is not dying alone. “A Hand to Hold” by Patty Palmer Lying in a hospital bed there in the ICU She tries to calm her fears not knowing what to do. The nurse tells her that she’s been ill for quite a while.
She holds her hand while she explains with a kindly smile.
Wondering where her family is since they aren’t there with her
She calls out but the tube in her throat allows her not a word.
The kindly nurse explains to her that visitors are not allowed.
The virus spreading rapidly prevents any size of crowd.
Feeling so alone as a tear falls down her feverish cheek.
She’s never been this sick before and feeling very weak.
The nurse takes a warm cloth and gently washes her face
‘Don’t worry, I’m here with you and I’m not going anyplace.’
A soothing bath the nurse gives to her, helps her to relax.
Keeping up a light banter as she finishes up her tasks.
Her heart is growing weaker and her colour isn’t good
But the nurse goes on acting as normal as she could.
She brushes her patient’s hair and forms it in a braid
She knows this lady is dying and asks the Lord, let her not be afraid.
As this ailing patient’s life is heading toward the end
She holds her hand and sings to her, not as a nurse but as a friend.
The machines show her vital signs are heading for a drop
And her new friend stays with her until they entirely stop.
This nurse has done all she could to make the end less cold.
No patient should have to die alone without a hand to hold.
She quietly leaves the room with a tear in her eye. Nurses are strong but sometimes they still do cry. She dries her eyes and blows her nose shaking off her heart.
Heading toward the next room where again she’ll do her part.
Dear Patty: I am reading this with a tear in my eye.
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