Caregivers are also in need of care

Re: “Neil's advice still stands me in good stead” (Opinion, Nov. 26)

Catharine Mckenty's piece about her husband is heartwarming in her resilient attitude and response to the difficult time we all live in. Reading through her reminiscence, however, I was surprised to see little reference to the hardship caregivers are faced with when a loved one is experiencing mental health challenges.

Many caregivers don't think of themselves as caregivers, but rather as family members who are just doing their duty. Playing an important role in their family member's health care can be an empowering experience; however, many caregivers hesitate to admit they are struggling. They often don't ask for help or support because they feel guilty overshadowing the person they are caring for.

This may be slowly changing with the prolongation of the COVID-19 pandemic, as caregivers (especially to seniors) are gradually being recognized for their essential role.

Nearly one in four Canadians is an unpaid caregiver, according to 2018 Statistics Canada figures. As such, their role is essential not only to the person they care for, but also as a social and economic force. To sustain their role, caregivers in all domains deserve and need support. This is the only scenario that will benefit everyone.

Ella Amir, executive director, Ami-québec, Montreal