Coach admits ‘crossing the line,’ denies sexual intent
Investigator related to complainant
SA RN IA, ONT .• In a letter written shortly after his arrest, a former gymnastics coach accused of sexually assaulting a young gymnast years ago apologized for “crossing the line” but insisted his actions were not sexually motivated.
Dave Brubaker wrote the letter to the complainant, now in her 30s, during a videotaped interview with police that was played at his trial Wednesday.
“I have reflected on all the things uncovered … in the social media and the #MeToo campaign,” Brubaker said in the letter that was also addressed to his wife and another gymnast. “I am guilty of crossing the line, but I want you all to know that my intentions were not sexual or premeditated.”
The former director of the women’s national gymnastics team has pleaded not guilty to sexual assault and invitation to sexual touching at his judge-alone trial. The charges relate to alleged incidents between 2000 and 2007.
In the police interview, Brubaker said standards of behaviour had changed since the complainant left the sport at age 19.
“I will die knowing that my intentions were never sexual or that my intentions were never to make her feel uncomfortable,” Brubaker said, adding he had a close relationship with her family.
“I don’t think I would ever take advantage of the trust of that family.”
The woman has testified Brubaker would kiss her on the lips to say hello and goodbye starting when she was 12, and touch her inappropriately during sports massages. Brubaker said he thought he was being a supportive coach and denied any sexual intent.
“I thought I was doing the right thing to help them,” he said. “I can see that, by today’s measures, it’s different.”
The complainant said Brubaker would pick her up from school, and take her to his house, where he occasionally would spoon her in bed and tickle her belly, before driving her to practice. Brubaker told the officer he didn’t remember doing that.
Brubaker distanced himself from other prominent men in gymnastics who faced allegations of sexual assault or misconduct — among them Larry Nassar, a former U.S. sports doctor sentenced to 40 to 125 years for sexually abusing hundreds of girls.
“I just don’t want to be painted with that same brush, because I don’t have those same intentions,” Brubaker said in the police interview.
The judge is considering whether to allow Brubaker’s interview into evidence after court heard the interviewing officer is related to the complainant.
The officer, who cannot be named to protect the identity of the complainant, testified he told the prosecution about the relationship and had received approval from his superiors before embarking on the investigation.
Defence lawyer Patrick Ducharme, however, suggested the officer tried to hide the connection. The officer, the lawyer said, never mentioned the relationship in his notes and the defence only learned of it three days before trial was set to begin.
“People like me like to know that the only investigating officer is related to the complainant,” Ducharme said.
The officer contended he didn’t note down his relationship because he didn’t want the relationship to affect what the coach told police. “I wanted to get a confession without the taint of him knowing I was related by marriage,” the officer said in court.
The case has been adjourned to Dec. 13.