MODERN HOMESTEADS
Satisfactions of self-reliance
Last month I got an email from a young man named Shane, and his questions took me back 30 years. Shane wants to build a home and life in the country, living deliberately close to nature and being as self-sufficient as he can. Shane has a wife and they’ve just discovered they’ll be parents for the first time. “I’m excited but nervous,” Shane says, “mainly because we just put our house up for sale with plans to move to the country. I’d like to do some kind of modern homesteading, but convincing my wife is a lot harder than I thought. She thinks a growing family needs at least a 2,000-square-foot house. I believe something smaller will do. How did you do it all those years ago, homesteading and starting a family?”
Shane wrote because he read about my experiences moving from the city to the country as a 20-something back in the 1980s and I understand what he’s trying to do. The fact is, young people today have it harder than I did starting out, just like my generation enjoyed fewer opportunities starting out than my baby boomer parents did. Numbers tell part of the story.
In 2010, Statistics Canada reported that the median annual income for people between 20 and 24 was $13,800. Back in 1976, this same age group enjoyed an income of $23,400 adjusted for inflation — nearly 10 grand more. Jobs these days pay less than they used to in absolute terms, housing is more expensive and energy costs more. These are some of the reasons more young people stay in their parents’ home longer, stay in school longer and share houses with friends rather than set up their own household.
The reason I chose modern homesteading is because I hoped I’d be better off financially and emotionally if I did some things directly for myself with my own hands rather than earn money and pay others for everything with after-tax dollars. By and large this has proven true, at least in the big things such as building a home, heating that home, doing household repairs and producing some food. The harder things get for young people, the more the do-it-yourself approach makes sense.
I was nervous at Shane’s stage in life, too. Today, the child I was nervous about is 26 years old, and a couple of months ago he found out his wife is expecting their first child. Temperament and situation has persuaded him to create his own modern homesteading life as I did. I’m coaching Shane the same way I’m coaching my own homesteading son.
First, expect to work harder than with a full-time job, especially at the beginning. Second, it’s entirely possible to raise a family in a small house, especially if you live in the country. Kids spend far less time indoors in the country than they do in the city — at least they should. If you need more floor space, build onto your main house later.
Modern homesteading is all about doing more for yourself directly without leaving your property for work or supplies unless you want to. But like many life philosophies, you can take it too far too fast. It shouldn’t be like leaping into a lake, but more like easing yourself into the water slowly, wading in from shore, adding more and more activities of self-reliance as you succeed.
Canada offers more opportunities for living life in a direct, hands-on way than most other countries in the world. And while this approach isn’t for everyone, I’m happy to tell the Shanes of this world there’s a huge amount of untapped satisfaction out beyond the city limits. Steve Maxwell and his family live on Manitoulin Island in northern Ontario. Sign up for his free newsletter and visit him online at baileylineroad.com.