Private schools find teaching moment in horror story
The day after news broke of an alleged sexual assault at an all-boys private school in Toronto that was captured on camera, a student at another private school a 10-minute drive away told his teacher he had the video on his cellphone.
Steve Tsimikalis, the principal of Toronto Prep School, said he had already planned to talk to the students about the incident at St. Michael’s College School as a means to open up discussions about bullying, assault and sexual assault when he heard about the student’s cellphone video.
“Oh my God, this is heinous,” Tsimikalis thought to himself after learning details of the allegations, knowing many students at his school have friends at St. Michael’s. “When police come out and say, ‘Hey, it’s child pornography,’ we had to do something quickly.”
Police sources have said the video, which has been shared on social media, depicts a group of boys pinning down another student in a locker-room at St. Michael’s and allegedly sexually assaulting him with a broom handle.
Tsimikalis demanded students delete the video if they had it on their phones. Then he had teachers discuss the situation with the students and he sent a message to parents.
“Kids might not always listen to their teachers, or to their parents, but hopefully if we have the same message that if they do have it, they will make certain it is removed,” Tsimikalis said. “We do not, to the best of our staff ’s knowledge, know of any kid who (still) has it and who has shared it.”
Police are investigating six incidents at St. Michael’s, including two alleged sexual assaults by students; three assaults, including one with a belt; and a threatening incident. Six students face sexual assault-related charges for the incident in the locker-room.
Amid the growing police investigation, the head of the force’s sex crimes unit called on private schools to sign protocols to work closely with officers — something the force has done with all public school boards in the city.
Private schools do not fall under the umbrella of the Ministry of Education — they simply operate as businesses or non-profit organizations — and are left to come up with their own policies and procedures, with little oversight.
Tsimikalis said he would welcome a partnership with police. He also said that in the event of allegations that even hint at criminality, police will be called in immediately.
He said the school of about 385 students in Grades 7 through 12 doesn’t shy away from discussing difficult topics, including the allegations of assault and sexual assault at St. Michael’s.
“First and foremost, this is unacceptable behaviour, but we also spoke about how to help,” he said.
“If you’re on the fringe, even if you say stop, they might not and might turn on you. There is that legitimate fear. But could you walk away and inform someone, even after the fact? Would you want someone to help you in that way if you were that person being victimized?”
The scandal has prompted several other private schools in Toronto to hold difficult discussions revolving around the allegations at St. Michael’s.
At Crescent School, an all-boys institution that teaches Grades 3 to 12, the administration held special assemblies after the scandal broke, said Lynda Torneck, the school’s director of marketing and communications.
The discussions were designed “to reflect on Crescent’s core values of respect, responsibility, honesty and compassion and how we practise these in our lives,” Torneck said.
“We also spoke to our students about capturing or sharing content on social media and the importance of being responsible digital citizens. These conversations have continued in smaller mentor-group discussions.”