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TUESDAY, DECEMBER 15, 2020 Venus Enters Sagittarius
In the days of old, people had to have an encyclopedic understanding of their environment just to survive it. Now, we rely on history, society and the internet, many pursuing knowledge on a strictly need-to-know basis. Those who take it further, researching their curiosities, will be rewarded as Venus transits through Sagittarius.
ARIES (March 21-April 19). Test ideas in small ways before you go bigtime. Even though your sampling may not be diverse enough to get a good idea of what your actual results would be were you to take the idea wider, the feedback will be valuable.
TAURUS (April 20-May 20). There is no bad quality that doesn’t have an upside and no good quality that doesn’t have a downside. Embrace the dualities instead of judging or fighting them and you grow in power.
GEMINI (May 21-June 21). Once you figure out that your assumption was incorrect, you’ll quickly abandon it. This proves your evolution and is part of your brilliance. A lack of stubbornness will contribute to your ongoing success.
CANCER (June 22-July 22). Learning together creates a bond. Challenging environments and circumstances reveal what a person is willing to give to life in order to grow, know and accept more about it.
LEO (July 23-Aug. 22). What is emotional safety? It’s being around people you can trust to keep their word and expecting them to do so, or it’s being around people known to disappoint and expecting them to do so.
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). One of the most difficult relationships to form or maintain is a relationship with an extremely busy person. Bonds are often built in the margins of the action, and for a terribly busy person, those margins are narrow indeed.
LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23). You’re attracted to purposeful people, and you fear aimlessness, secretly believing it to be contagious. Be careful not to make a quick judgment on the matter. Not all who wander are lost.
SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). Just when you’re not expecting much from a project, task or relationship, you’ll experience a moment that takes it to the next level. Once you experience it, there’s no going back.
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21). When you speak, things happen. You change things with talk. You’ll connect with people and the world in ways that wouldn’t have happened had you not made it so with your words.
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19). You’ve gotten good at blending in with a group. From here, you are quite powerful, as you have the alliance of many. Soon, it will be your turn to take a stand, be seen and heard. Your platform is coming together.
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18). Before you try to separate and categorize things, step back from the mess to look for patterns and connections within it. That insight will be harder to detect once you start moving everything around.
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). People can feel that your heart is in the right place, so don’t worry if some of the words come out wrong. Knowing the right thing to say and saying it the right way is a learned skill that takes practice. Heart can’t be taught.
TODAY’S BIRTHDAY (Dec.15). Long overdue appreciation will come your way. Your uniqueness will be understood by people who see deeper and know more. You won’t let acknowledgment and praise go to your head. You’ll use the power surge to turn people’s attention toward making a difference for situations and people you care about. Taurus and Gemini adore you. Your lucky numbers are: 6, 20, 11, 38 and 40.
COSMIC QUESTION: “I initiate everything -- texting, meeting, affection, etc. He always says goodbye first. I feel like I’m chasing him, and I hate it. He’s a Scorpio. I’m the Cancer who thinks he’s a magnet, except why can’t he feel the force of it, too?”
Before you cry “unrequited,” make sure you’re giving him a chance to “requite.” Your private, mysterious Scorpio is very imaginative and needs a place for his imagination to extend.
Consider that every relationship is actually four relationships. There is your relationship with the person, and then there is your relationship with your idea of the person. The other person has the same dynamic going on. In the beginning, your idea of the person and the actual person may be pretty far apart, and that’s OK. We project into this idea our assumptions based on the little information we have, also we project who we want and need the person to be.
That relationship with the fantasy is essential and a huge bonding agent to the relationship. And it can only become strong when you leave enough space inside of the relationship for a person to miss you, dream about you, be insecure about you, etc.
In short, before you give up, give him your silence and non-attention deliberately, as a gift to the relationship, and then see if you get a different reaction.
CELEBRITY PROFILES: Charlie Cox put the star in “Stardust” and the dare in “Daredevil,” answering the calling of his fiery Sagittarius sun. Cox was born when the sun, Mercury, Saturn and Uranus were all in the passionate sign of travel, adventure and other worlds. His moon in Libra brings the romance and artistry. Look for Cox in the upcoming television drama, “Kin.”