Everyone loves ‘Ally’ except me

Dear Annie: I am a 19-yearold full-time college student and I work part time at a fast-food place. I started my job two years ago, and for the most part, I enjoy it and have made several friends.

Eight months ago, “Ally” joined our team. I happened to have attended elementary school with Ally. We always butted heads back then, but my first impression of her at work was a good one, and I was happy to think she had matured.

Or so I thought.

As time went on, her true colours reappeared. Despite my initial kindness to her, she has singled me out and treated me horribly.

The problem is that everyone else seems to love her. Even worse, she was promoted last month, which was surprising considering she’s so new. Now it would be difficult for me to complain about her to my supervisor. She’s my supervisor.

I’m tired of letting Ally push me around, and it’s lonely to know that I’m the only one to whom she does this. I don’t want to start any trouble. I just want peace and for these petty matters to disappear. I am frustrated with myself for letting this girl get under my skin. What can I do?

— Fed Up in Jacksonville, Fla.

Dear Fed Up: You could complain to a supervisor above Ally, but no one else is apparently witnessing her unkindness toward you, so that might not help.

Here’s a different tactic: Ally may still think of you the way she did in grade school. Why not take her aside and ask, politely and nicely, what’s going on?

Let her know you were happy to see her when she first showed up and hoped you could start fresh. Even if she denies her poor behaviour, she will be more aware of it and that could be enough.

Of course, if it doesn’t work, another option is looking for different job.

This Classic Annie’s

Mailbox column was originally published in 2015.