Woman dating too many too much

Q - My seven-year relationship ended earlier this year. I took five months off, then recently started dating again.

Since I’d been “out of practice,” I tried to meet as many men as possible and go on as many dates as possible.

Recently, I met four men within a very short period. I feel great connection with all of them.

All four have asked me out on a second, third, fourth date, and so on.

I like all of them, but I feel I don’t know any of them well enough to choose one person to focus on.

How long can I keep on dating all these men?

At what point, do make a decision?

Busy I need to

A - So much choice! It’s flattering but can also be misleading.

Do not think it means you must start a serious relationship with one of them.

It’s too soon, especially when you’re attracted to several different people.

It could be the whirlwind that’s making each of the four seem too appealing to give up even one.

But “too much” can also be misleading. It’s hard to get to know someone when you’re juggling dates with four eager men.

Cool the rush, now that you’ve been reassured that you’re still able to attract and

Q - Why does my ex-boyfriend, who broke up with me three times, keep harassing me months later?

I’ve known him a long time, since we started college together, and know his family just as he knows mine.

He can be a hothead, especially when he’s been drinking, which is often.

I took him back after those other breakups but then I met someone who treats me beautifully and with respect.

I’ve moved on and told my ex. That’s when the harassing went from emails and phone calls to dropping in unexpectedly and starting a fight.

I have no idea what he may do next.

What can I do to protect myself?

Angry Ex-Boyfriend