Widower ‘overwhelmed’ by thousands of birthday cards
Gerard Dunn has found an unexpected best friend in his local postman who makes daily house calls — sometimes with the help of a supervisor — to deliver an “overwhelming” torrent of fresh cards for him to look through.
His Sydney, N.S., home is packed with containers full of letters, notes, and postcards after a tweet from his daughter Miriam went viral last month asking people to mail him their best wishes for his 92nd birthday on Tuesday - it being the first birthday in a very long time that he will spend without his beloved wife, Ellen, who died in March.
Since that tweet, Gerard has received thousands of cards from people all over the world, including Europe, Australia, Africa, and the Americas.
“Oh my goodness. It’s an experience,” he said.
The tweet even elicited a response from Prime Minister Justin Trudeau who sent Gerard a card wishing him a happy birthday.
Other notable cards include one from a woman he saved from drowning as a girl, who felt the need to reach out and thank him decades later.
Another woman sent a card that said “Happy Birthday Dad.” Inside, she wrote that she got the card for her own father, but he passed away before she could give it to him. She didn’t know what to do with it until she saw the now-famous tweet.
Miriam said she still finds the response hard to believe.
“I think it’s impossible for Dad, or I, to really fathom how much impact this has had on so many people around the world,” she said.
“And I think it’s going to take a little time, and a little distance, to really understand, to see the big picture.”
Miriam continues to document the cards that come in on her Twitter account.
When asked what 4,000 cards — their latest estimate — looks like, she said: “Like a huge mess in your house.”
Some cards contain snippets of the lives of the people who wrote them. Some included photographs, maps, calendars, or even books about the places they’re from.
A man in Amsterdam sent some chocolates.
But Miriam said the best part is that her plea seems to have reinvigorated the lost art of letterwriting, which has been gradually replaced by emails, text messages, and tweets.
“What’s so remarkable is the thought, time and care that people are taking to communicate with Dad,” she said.
“Writing genuine letters, filling in the news, and describing their lives, talking about the things they think about, the things they like, and asking questions. And it’s so reminiscent of days gone by when people wrote long letters that were kind of a stream of consciousness.”