Messages of hope
‘E Fry Angels’ are volunteers on a mission
They are known as the “E Fry Angels.”
That’s how the Dundas couple sign the cards that are sent with each one of the comfort kits and care packages given to women through the Elizabeth Fry Society. The organization supports women who have been abused and who are in conflict with the law.
And the need, especially during COVID-19, is mighty.
The Spectator has agreed to not use their names, not because they aren’t proud and willing to talk openly about why they believe the Elizabeth Fry Society is Hamilton’s best-kept secret, but to allow their identities to continue to be a mysterious source of hope for the women.
“Dear friend, Look for something positive in each day even if some days you have to look a little harder. From your E Fry Angels.”
“Dear friend, Always find time for things that make you feel happy to be alive! From your E Fry Angels.”
These are just a couple examples of the cards adorned with stickers — the woman has a “mad love” for stickers. She also has a “mad love” for ribbons, on display in the countless packages she pulls together for women in need.
Her husband has become an expert in seeking out donations. Often when he asks a company or store if they can help, they say no one has ever asked before, and offer support. This has meant donations of everything from cereal to bras. “These women have two strikes against them, society tends to treat them more harshly than men,” he says. “Women are ostracized more when they get out (of jail), where for some men it’s a badge of honour.”
What so many of the women need to be given is “a bit of dignity.”
“So many turn a blind eye to these women, but who knows, we are all just one decision between being on the wrong side of the law,” she says.
The pair is so enthusiastic about the work that they now have a wide circle of friends always looking out for a deal, or picking up a few extra things when they’re out shopping. During the COVID-19 pandemic they get constant messages from friends who’ve left donations on their front porches.
Since the pandemic they agreed to take donated items to their home, where she packages them up with ribbons and fastens the cards — making each package ready for delivery.
It means hours of work every day for them. But they’re not tired.
They began volunteer work with Elizabeth Fry Society more than a decade ago, but it’s been really in the last few years where they ramped up and began putting together the donations and cards.
“We’re both still as passionate,” she says.