PARENTING BEHAVIOUR THAT COMMUNICATE ENCOURAGEMENT IN CHILDREN

There is always a chance that parents and children’s want to say something to each other wants to communicate but withered the right things are said at the wrong time or they are not conveyed or received with the right impression. 1. facial expression body language: the parents do try ot control their anger or displeasure and try to be positive but their look, their body language given them away so parents please first try to be actually ready to deal with children with mental acceptance first. Parent’s please show your children that there may be disagreements or issues or problems for something but it is defiantly not for love toward children so let your children feel that you are actually ready to hear them out, consider their situation and feelings and will definitely help them unbiased of your own views and choices. 2. Choice of Right words: in any form of conversation or communication, words have different impact many times the person who is saying those words , the person who is listening and the actual massage which a speaker words to convey is something misunderstood. We often hear people saying that, No No i didn’t mean to say that, what i wanted to say was this..... The right way or the right choice of words are very important and could be less quantity. When one thing is repeated again and again, To often it loses its value. Truth is also different to taste and digest when it is coated in better coating. 3. respect and dignity: This applies to both sides parties parents and children’s both should remember to keep respect of each other, However angry of frustrated one is, one cannot humiliate other person by harsh, diminishing and insulting words. Those times are gone when parents could just call their children any names and the children would sulk inside but not retort or say anything. The old values are still there but the thoughts and behaviour or say approach has become bolder, more unconventional sulk inside but not retort or say anything. The old values are still there but the thoughts and behaviour or say approach has become bolder, more unconventional. 4. loving-but firm: as a parent we need to be strict sometimes but the love comes in between the duty and what needs to be done. We as a parent are more likely to be blinded by love of our children sometime4s one has to be hard, strict for their own good, for for training them, teaching them, guiding them. more to be continued........ Just chill Some people are like luck whom we get by blessings. Some people are like blessings whom we get who change our luck.