Nice day for a green wedding
PERSONALIZED: There’s been a ‘noticeable spike’ in non-traditional dresses for brides
LOS ANGELES — When deciding what kind of dress I wanted to wear for my wedding this year, I knew what I didn’t want. No lace, no veil, and absolutely nothing long, corseted, traditional and white.
So, for our tiny May marriage ceremony, I went with an off-the-rack, navy blue sailor dress with a filmnoir flair. For our wedding celebration with friends and family six months later, I wore a shorter, stretch velvet halter dress in red — my favourite colour — custom-made by a Los Angeles boutique I’ve gone to for years.
It turns out that unconventional wedding dresses, while still not as popular as their white, floor-sweeping counterparts, are catching on.
“We saw a noticeable spike in the number of untraditional dresses — shorter dresses, the use of colour — a couple of years ago,” said Keija Minor, editor-in-chief of Brides magazine (brides.com).
“There’s a move for all couples to want to personalize their wedding and not be the cookie-cutter wedding their parents want. If your dream dress isn’t a flowy white gown, and you want a pop of colour, then why not?”
According to the magazine’s 2016 American Wedding Study, an annual survey of engaged and newlywed women, 93 per cent of brides still select white and off-white gowns. Yet 11 per cent of brides opt now for something “unique,” from cocktail-length and non-white dresses to slinky jumpsuits. The study also found that 73 per cent of couples pay for or contribute to the cost of their own wedding.
“If your mom’s paying for your dress, she would probably want more of a say,” Minor says. “The days of the bride’s family paying is so over. With this financial shift, you’ve seen more girls being less traditional.”
Popular non-traditional colours range from lighter pastels such as champagne, blush, pale pink and light blue to glittery gold and silver, Minor said. Besides shorter lengths, high-low hemlines appeal to women who want to show off their shoes.
Recently, at Matrushka Construction (matrushka.com), a cosy, oneroom clothing shop in the hip Silver Lake area of Los Angeles that makes colourful dresses and other apparel by hand, owner Laura Howe — wearing a slouchy, off-the-shoulder sweater — laughed when recalling the most untraditional wedding dress she’s ever made.
“I once made a tutu dress, like a Degas dress, in lavender, and that was wacky,” said Howe, 49. “Usually people who want alternative dresses are people who have an understanding, an appreciation, for both fashion and handmade fashion. I also have clients who trust me from making dresses for them before.”
Howe started making custom wedding dresses 10 years ago. They range from US$200 for a dress based on an existing Matrushka design to US$1,500 for a more distinct and complex custom-made look.
When Brooklyn, N.Y.-based Jamie Hardy, 37, and her husband were planning their June 2011 wedding celebration — a lunch and dance party — a year after they secretly married, Hardy asked her architect friend, Gerri Davis, to make the dress. Hardy and Davis — who plans to make a pantsuit for her own wedding next year — met and hashed out a design. Then they shopped for fabrics, and Davis took a plaster cast of Hardy’s body to work off of.
Hardy’s neutral toned, cocktail-length dress ended up being a sleek and artistic combo of raw silk, clear sequins, upholstery fabric and darker, vine-like embroidery, with part of a multicoloured kimono sash on one shoulder.
“I wanted it to be treelike and rootlike, and Gerri as an architect brought structure to it,” said Hardy, who was then going to school for landscape design. “I also don’t like the colour white. It doesn’t look good on me, and I would get it dirty. Comfort is really important.”