10 things that have changed since your mom had a baby 2. A safe sleep environment is important.
BEING A NEW PARENT, people will tell you, is overwhelming. A new baby does not come with instructions. While frantic Googling is always an option, many turn to an even more comprehensive source of knowledge: their own mothers.
In those first days, weeks and months, new grandmothers (and grandfathers) can serve as resources in what feels like a prolonged guessing game of “What’s upsetting my baby?” But while they’re often expert diaper changers and baby whisperers, the trouble with relying solely on mom’s knowledge is that a lot may have changed since she had babies of her own.
“The reason we have all the recommendations for babies is we can study them,” said Dr. Renee F. Slade, a pediatrician at Rush University Medical Center. “If there are only a few patients of a rare disease, it makes it hard to conduct research. But with babies, there are thousands of them born every day across the country, so we’re always learning, and best practices are always changing.”
Dr. Adia George, a pediatrician at Advocate Illinois Masonic Medical Center, said she often fields questions about old wives’ tales that aren’t based in research. For example, some moms or dads put coins on their babies’ umbilical cords to prevent hernias — a practice that isn’t medically necessary or effective. But George said that there’s nothing wrong with certain things as long as they don’t harm the baby.
“Typically, the type of advice that I give families is just advice. There aren’t really hard rules because everything doesn’t apply to every infant and every infant is different,” George said. “What grandmothers have done isn’t necessarily wrong, but it might be that what they’ve done hasn’t been proven to show any benefit, which is why we don’t recommend it.”
So what’s changed in the last few decades since your mom had a baby?
1. Car seats stay rear facing for longer.
Since 2011, the American Academy of Pediatrics has advised keeping car seats rear facing until the child is 2 years old, instead of the previous milestone at 1. “Facing forward, there’s more stress on the neck when the car lurches forward in an accident,” Slade said. “So rear facing helps prevent more serious neck injuries.
While the “Back to Sleep” campaign started in 1994 to raise awareness of the importance of putting infants to sleep on their backs, Slade said these days, there is added emphasis on a safe sleep environment: no pillows, blankets, stuffed animals or bumpers in cribs. Additionally, the drop-side crib has been banned in the U.S. since 2011.
3. No alcohol on the umbilical cord.
While parents were once instructed to pour alcohol on the umbilical cord to help it fall out, studies show that keeping the cord dry is better for healing. “While the umbilical cord is still attached, it’s recommended for babies to have a sponge bath only,” said George, who added that babies don’t need to be bathed every day, but every two to three days.
4. No baby powder.
The AAP recommends against using baby powder. “No matter how careful you are with it, it gets up in the air and the baby can inhale it, which opens them up to respiratory problems and infections,” Slade said.
5. No water until 6 months.
“It’s no longer recommended for infants to have water until they’re starting solid food,” George said. “A newborn should have only breast milk or formula.”
6. A baby shouldn’t drink rice cereal.
Some mothers swear by adding a little rice cereal to a baby’s formula or breast milk to get them to sleep longer, but Slade said that practice of adding extra calories to liquid creates a higher risk of obesity. “Babies probably do sleep longer with the cereal, but there’s a reason they’re waking up in the middle of the night,” she said. “They still need that nutrition when they’re less than 6 months old.”
7. Moms room with babies in the hospital.
It used to be common practice for a maternity ward to keep newborns in a nursery, but now babies typically stay with the mothers in a bassinet. “That way the mom is learning the baby’s cues right away and bonding,” Slade said. “At first, when we dropped the nursery, there were a lot of customer service issues and complaints from the moms that they couldn’t get a nap. But I never hear complaints now because rooming in is more of the expectation.”
8. Breastfeeding is more emphasized and supported.
The health benefits of breastfeeding for both mom and baby have been widely researched. The AAP recommends breastfeeding for at least the first year of a baby’s life if possible, and Slade said she has seen hospitals support this with more lactation consultants and lactation training for nurses.
9. The first pediatrician appointment is earlier.
Slade said it’s a relatively new practice to have the first pediatric appointment just two days after mom and baby leave the hospital. This change came because mothers used to stay at the hospital for up to two weeks, and in that time, the baby was checked for things like jaundice or weight loss. “It’s a super valuable appointment,” she said. “You’re helping the parents when they’re totally overwhelmed and they need someone to answer questions.” Slade added that these days babies undergo a lot more testing before they leave the hospital for things like hearing problems, heart defects and jaundice.
10. Soft soles are better for learning to walk.
Though many mothers have the classic hard white baby bootie that’s been passed down through generations, those aren’t best for a baby’s development. “When babies are learning to walk, we recommend bare feet in the house and a soft shoe with a more flexible sole when they’re outside,” Slade said.