Gifts for teachers a nice thank-you at Christmas

There are certain times of the year when teacher gifts are kind of the thing to do. Think: Teacher appreciation week, end of the school year and the Christmas/ Hanukkah/winter holidays.

You don’t have to, but it’s good etiquette to do so. Even if you don’t love your child’s teacher or teachers, it’s nice to thank them for putting up with your kid.

We heard from our teacher friends about what they are given and what they’d really like to receive. Here are some ideas:

Not food. Why? You might not know if your kid’s teacher has an allergy or is trying to lose weight or be healthier, or just doesn’t like the food item you have provided.

Gift cards to something that is not school-related. Think about opportunities for them to pamper themselves. Find out what their favourite restaurant is or favourite store. Try not to make it something utilitarian. The teachers in our life have a tendency to do things like buy supplies for their class rather than pamper themselves. A pamper-yourself basket. Avoid hand lotion and candles

because like the food items, teachers get a ton of that and they can be really smelly. Think about some fuzzy socks, a fun magazine, some playing cards or a game.

A germ-protection basket. This is the time of the year when your kids are germy and think about that times 25 in a class. Plus, flu season is expected to be bad this year. Fill a basket with some antibacterial wipes or gel, a funny mug with some tea and honey, cough drops, some oranges, tissues, a gift card to a pharmacy. Include a funny apology note in advance if your kid makes them sick.

A thank-you note from you and from your child. That means even more than any material item. Make sure it’s sincere, though. Highlight all the ways they have helped your child and all the things your child has learned. They will keep these notes forever. My mom still has many of the ones she received.

Bonus: If you know your teacher’s favourite charity, consider making a donation. She’ll know you thought of her and your

will be doing a lot of good.