You can cultivate peace in this world of conflict
According to scriptural record, on the night before the Crucifixion, a violent showdown erupted between Jesus’s disciples and those who had come to arrest him.
Peter, eager to defend his master, unsheathed his sword and struck off the right ear of one of their foes. Jesus was quick to reprimand him. “All who take the sword will perish by the sword,” he counselled, before telling Peter to put away his weapon. Then Jesus did the unthinkable — he reached out to his injured enemy and healed him.
This and other stories from the Gospels are sometimes interpreted to mean Jesus was a kind of “uber pacifist,” a man with superpowers of nonviolent conflict resolution. But is that true? Moreover, is it possible to follow Christ’s example in a world with school shootings, terrorist attacks, online bullying and supercharged political speech? I’ve come to believe it’s not only possible, but necessary, though it means going far beyond the human practice of nonviolence to embrace an entirely new way of thinking about one’s enemies. Jesus, as usual, showed us the way.
In my view, what Jesus practised was a spiritual brand of pacifism that looked beyond the labels of “friend” and “enemy” altogether. While Jesus certainly endured plenty of hatred and violence, the Christ gazed past this tumultuous mortal picture to recognize that — at least in absolute terms — his “enemies” were God’s children: perfect, spiritual, and loved. That is why Jesus claimed he could have walked free from his “enemies,” if God hadn’t ordained him with a much larger mission.
Mary Baker Eddy, author of Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures, had much to say about enemies, too. “‘Love thine enemies’ is identical with ‘Thou hast no enemies,’ ” she wrote. “Wherein is this conclusion relative to those who have hated thee without cause? Simply, in that those unfortunate individuals are virtually thy best friends.”
In other words, our enemies are friends because they provide us with opportunities to grow spiritually. When we’re successful at seeing past human labels, even the most violent narrative can change to a peaceful one.
Antoinette Tuff, a school bookkeeper from Atlanta who was confronted by a gunman in August 2013, saw this work firsthand. Instead of panicking, she reached out to the angry young man in front of her as a person, confiding in him about her divorce and attempted suicide.
Eventually, and without hurting anyone, the gunman laid down his assault rifle. “I knew the pain he felt, so I was able to show him compassion and love,” Tuff says. “When we show compassion, it just works.”
Another example involves my friend George Nutwell, a Christian Science practitioner from Texas, who, for years, managed security at U.S. embassies for the Department of State. He remembers frequent rocket attacks at the American embassy while serving in Iraq, which inspired him to pray daily for the protection of embassy staff. Still, the rockets kept coming. “I came to realize that praying for myself and those I was responsible for was not enough,” Nutwell says. “It wasn’t until I started thinking about the people firing the rockets, and praying for them, that the rocket attacks stopped. And for some years after that, there were no more rocket attacks.”
According to human logic, Tuff and Nutwell had every reason to be afraid, to feel anger and resentment toward their attackers. And yet they overcame this narrative by responding with meekness, humility, charity, and compassion — saving their own lives and the lives of many others in the process.
Is it time to reconsider how we see our enemies?
Matthew Jackson is a member of the Christian Science church in Victoria. He has been a professional writer and editor for 22 years.