Helping others when times are difficult for them
The upcoming Christmas season can be challenging. We have our memories, expectations, dreams, wants and desires. It can be joyous or happy or too overwhelming for some, and a source of great pain for others.
It is difficult to focus on peace and good will when the cupboard is bare and you perceive that you are lost or feeling alone.
Over the years I have talked about this seasonal related depression and have asked my readers to make a note of folks who may need a smile, a hug or understanding. Yet, as Christmas Daddies will attest, and the Bethany Bin outreach will affirm, there are so very many dear ones who without their kindness would not have anything close to a happy Christmas.
For me Christmas is not about the latest toy or extravagant gifts. It is about the message of caring for others in a way that one would hope we would be cared for in our lives. Christmas, the celebration of the birth of Christ, for me as a Christian that is key. Christ who promoted the ideals of love one another as we would ourselves. Regardless, very major faith has this message as a cornerstone. We are our brother’s keeper. My Muslim, Jewish, Buddhist and Hindu friends agree. We in rural Canada understand this better than most. We make concerted efforts for all to feel safe and welcome in our communities.
Yet, Christmas is a difficult time for so many — all too many. The folks at Vintage Farms, located at 1002 Langford Rd. in Weymouth, know this message. For 13 years they have hosted a Walk of Lights fundraiser in support of needy folks in our community that need a hand, caring and positive support.
I have been there and have done that and have the proverbial T-shirt and the mug. I was so alone, lost and needing help. Part of that was my pride, but folks negated that and made me feel welcome. I was offered invitations to have tea, I was hugged and I felt love. They thought outside of the box. They cared. I am so grateful. Yet, I know I was lucky. So many will feel as I did and I am not sure folks will see this or reach out. The folks at Vintage farm so know this aspect.
The walk they have created is a fantasy. I am reminded of Nania as I walk the trail. The mason jars of light which open us to the dreams the peace, the visions of life are part of the walk. It is such an enriching experience. If you have mobility deficits. They have a respectful plan should you want to participate. The walk ends with hot beverages and food.
The 13th Winter's Night Walk of Lights at Vintage Farms is Friday, Dec. 13, from 6 to 9 p.m. and Saturday, Dec. 14, from 6 to 9 p.m. For more info, call 902-837-4180. All proceeds from walk donations and sales of tickets are donated to a local charity in support of families in need in our community. I am going. Hope to see you there!