Abigail Van Buren

Afternoon delight ends when wife stops to take a call

DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have been married for many years, work long schedules, and actually sleep when we go to bed at night. Saturday afternoon, we had “nothin’ to do,” so I suggested some hankypanky. We were just getting into it when the phone rang.

I told her to let it go to voicemail, but when our married daughter’s name was caller- ID- announced, she said she had to take the call because they had been playing phone tag all day. There was no important matter, just idle chitchat. What a mood killer!

Am I wrong to be angry that my needs were ignored so my wife could say, “Hello, how are you?” to our daughter ( who calls eight times a day anyway)? – THWARTED IN MICHIGAN

DEAR THWARTED: Wrong? I don’t think so. I think it’s time to calmly ask your wife WHY she prioritized taking that call over the opportunity to be intimate with you.

P. S. The next time you’re in “H- P” mode, put both of your phones on “do not disturb.”

DEAR ABBY: A few days ago, my daughter had a sleepover at a friend’s house, and the girl’s dad broke my daughter’s eyeglasses by accidentally stepping on them. He said he would pay for them. In the meantime, I glued them together.

Fast forward to two days later, and our dog finished the job and broke the side that was still OK. Is the dad still responsible for paying or is he not, since my dog used the glasses as his chew toy? -- BLIND AS BATS IN FLORIDA

DEAR BLIND AS BATS: The man who stepped on your daughter’s glasses should pay to replace them as promised, and in the future, when those glasses are not on your daughter’s nose, they should be safely stored in their case and in a secure location!