A visit with Quiet Santa
Quiet Santa event makes Christmas icon more accessible to people with autism
Special meet-and-greets with the jolly old elf are available for autistic children
Jackie Thorpe remembers the first time her son Austin saw Santa at the Greenwood Mall.
Austin, now 8, lives with autism. He is non-verbal and doesn’t enjoy big crowds or loud noises. But when he saw Santa, all was quiet and all was calm.
Austin walked up to the green and red platform and began checking out the decorations, the tree, the fireplace and Santa himself. He sat on the ground instead of on Santa’s knee, and Santa got down too — something Thorpe says was “quite amazing to see.”
“There was no pressure for him to sit in the chair. It was a ‘follow Austin’ kind of deal, and Santa was amazing,” she says.
The event was launched in 2015 by the Annapolis Valley Chapter of Autism Nova Scotia after years of hearing from parents whose children were not able to see Santa during the busy Christmas shopping season.
Sandy Wing, the chapter’s navigator, says the event is held at both the Greenwood Mall and County Fair Mall in New Minas before the mall opens its stores, turns on its music and is illuminated with fluorescent lights.
She says this lack of sensory stimuli is exactly what works for many with an autism diagnosis, creating opportunities for them to visit Santa on their own terms.
“We see children and teens taking part in it, because it’s the first time they’ve been able to see Santa,” she says.
Thorpe says she and Austin have been back each year since the event started. While she used to take her daughters during regular hours to see Santa, Austin was never able to go, even if the line was short.
She says she always gets “all emotions at once” when she sees her son enjoying his time with Santa.
“For him to be able to finally have the experience that his sisters did when they were younger, that’s just amazing,” says Thorpe.
The event is free of charge and welcomes all ages, as well as siblings. Since 2015, Wing has seen several kids return each year and move around the space with Santa, who follows their lead and gets on their level.
“We see kids get braver — some may try sitting in the chair, perhaps — and Santa is so good with them. It’s emotional for the parents, and for us too,” she says.
If interested in a Quiet Santa visit, contact annapolisvalley@ autismns.ca with your child/ teen/adult’s name and age, your preferred time and your contact information.
Fifteen-minute time slots at the County Fair Mall on Nov. 25 run from 9:15 a.m. to noon, and at the Greenwood Mall on Dec. 9 from 9:45 a.m. to noon.