Nurse had just finished second stint in rehab
Arrest ‘really hard to believe,’ neighbours say
WOODSTOCK, ONT. • Just a few weeks ago, Elizabeth Wettlaufer gave away her beloved dog, Nashville, a spry Jack Russell terrier.
Her friends thought the move odd, but they now wonder if the 49-year-old nurse knew what was coming.
On Tuesday, Wettlaufer was charged with eight counts of first-degree murder in connection with the deaths of seniors in her care — seven of them at a nursing home just a 15-minute walk from her apartment in Woodstock, Ont.
As news broke about her charges, her friends gathered outside the apartment building, trying to piece it all together.
“She was a happy-go-lucky lady,” said Nancy Gilbert, who lived downstairs from Wettlaufer’s fifth-floor apartment. “It’s hard to believe, really, really hard to believe.”
She and Wettlaufer went out for dinner just a few weeks ago. During that meal, Wettlaufer told her she had just gotten out of a rehab facility in Toronto — it was the second such time, Gilbert said.
A Facebook page for a Bethe Wettlaufer, whose photo, education and employment records match that of Elizabeth Wettlaufer, makes reference to what appears to be a struggle with substance abuse.
“My own voice called to me in the darkness. Others hands lifted me when I chose the light. One year ago today I woke up not dead. 365 days clean and sober,” says a post from September 2015.
But poetry posted under the pseudonym Betty Weston but copyrighted to Bethe Wettlaufer on allpoetry.com includes verses that are far less lighthearted.
One gruesome poem titled Inevitable, is written from the perspective of a serial killer. One graphic line from that poem reads: “Heart beats then sprays/as this next victim pays/her deft dagger’s bill.”
The works — many of them receiving praise and constructive criticism from other members of allpoetry. com — also include poems about nature, working in a nursing home and family relationships.
The profile picture for Betty Weston is the same as one of Wettlaufer’s Facebook profiles.
Amid police concerns that she would commit a “serious personal injury,” Wettlaufer was made subject of a peace bond earlier this month with 10 conditions, including that she live with her parents in Woodstock and refrain from acting as a caregiver to anyone.
In addition, she was banned from possessing insulin or any other medication unless it was for her own use. She was also barred by the court order from visiting any long-term care facility, nursing or retirement home, or hospital unless she needed medical treatment.
Charlene Puffer said she lived down the hall from Wettlaufer and described her neighbour as a decent person. She said Wettlaufer was quiet and loved her pets, which also included two cats.
Gilbert said Wettlaufer lived alone and court records indicate she filed for divorce in 2008.
Records from the College of Nurses of Ontario show Wettlaufer was first registered as a nurse in August 1995 but resigned on Sept. 30 of this year and is no longer a registered nurse.
Her friends said they hadn’t seen the nurse much in recent weeks and she told them she was living with her parents.
Gilbert said Wettlaufer had told her about a developmentally challenged child she had been helping take care of, which only furthered the friend’s disbelief at the charges.
Before she worked at Caressant Care, Wettlaufer worked at Christian Horizons, a faith-based charitable organization that works with people with developmental disabilities.
The organization said Wettlaufer left in June 2007 and noted that the allegations she now faces are not connected to her employment with Christian Horizons.
“We are shocked and saddened by these tragic deaths, and our thoughts and prayers go out to the families and the Woodstock community,” the organization’s CEO, Janet Noel-Annable, said in a statement.
Wettlaufer appeared in court Tuesday morning and was remanded into custody until her next court hearing on Nov. 2. A lawyer for Wettlaufer could not immediately be reached.