Service with a dimpled smile and a flower
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We want to communicate with normal people, but we fear rejection and we don’t want to trouble them.”
The speaker is 23-year-old Hua Yuxin, who suffers a hearing loss. A barista at a cafe called Lili Time, he goes by the nickname Xiaoyu. For hearingimpaired people, nicknames are more easily expressed in sign language.
Located on Mengzi Road E., the coffee shop employs seven deaf or hard-of-hearing people born mainly in the 1980s and 90s. It offers them an opportunity to step outside their small, silent world and connect with the wider society.
Lili is both the name of the cafe’s founder and an abbreviation for “love is life illumed,” which is the slogan of the shop.
Entering Lili, I feel like I am in a gallery. The shop is filled with oil paintings and wall art created by Lin Ying, who suffered a hearing loss from a drug allergy when she was only eight months old.
Finding her passion in painting, Lin is devoted to artistic creation. She was invited to paint a wall at Lili Time by its founder Zhang Lili. Visiting Lin’s home, Zhang was touched by the stories behind the paintings.
“I can’t hear the sound of wind, but I can see it.” Those words appear under a Lin painting entitled “Sound of Wind.”
By hanging Lin’s paintings in her coffee shop, Zhang helped Lin realize her dream of organizing an exhibition of her works.
Some of her paintings have sold for 170,000 yuan (US$24,000). All the money goes to Lin, who is saving up for her deaf daughter to have cochlear implant surgery.
“Although I have been deaf since childhood, I accept my fate,” Lin says in a sign language video. “It allows me to use my heart to listen to the world. Painting is my best friend. In its world, I can express my joy and sorrow. I can communicate with people.”
To promote Lin’s talent, Lili Time has initiated the “Flowing Art Gallery” project, which extends her artwork to products, such as coffee sachets, postcards and tote bags.
“Lili Time is a stage where people with dreams can exhibit their talent,” says Zhang, 42.
I have hardly sat down at the table when Xiaoyu comes to me with a basket of flowers. He takes out a blue booklet from the pocket of his apron and shows me the words: “Hello, my name is Xiaoyu. Nice to meet you.
Our coffee shop gives a flower to every female customer. Hope you like it.”
I choose a pink carnation of delicate bloom. What’s sweeter is Xiaoyu’s smile, which features a dimple on the right side of his cheek.
“Their smiles always give me a lot of comfort,” says Zhang. “As we get older, there are more troubles we need to confront, and it is often harder to smile. However, I am happy when I am with the people with hearing loss. They are beautifully unpretentious.”
Beyond Xiaoyu’s engaging smile is a tale of hard times. His father passed away when he was a little boy and his mother remarried. Xiaoyu was brought up by his grandparents, who insisted on voice training. Thanks to them, Xiaoyu is able to talk somewhat.
During our encounter, Xiaoyu closely watches my lips and tries to understand what I am saying. Following Zhang’s advice, I say words slowly and clearly, but I still need Zhang’s help because the grammar of spoken language is different from that of sign language.
“In order to be reunited with my girlfriend, I came from northeast China to Shanghai in
February last year,” says
Xiaoyu.
“On the introduction of a friend, I applied for the job at Lili Time. Luckily, I got the job and started to learn making coffee.”
Xiaoyu calls Zhang and her husband godparents, fondly referring to the “family” of the cafe.
In that family is 20-year-old Liu Guowen, who began working as a barista at Lili Time after quitting a job as a company illustrator. The job was too stressful. When he first came to Lili Time, his demeanor was dour, with few smiles. Nowadays, all that has changed.
Other members of the “silent family” at the cafe are Gao Ting, a barista who loves dancing, and Auntie Yang, who is responsible for cooking and is learning floral design in her spare time. Her teachers are the floral designer Cai Zhenjun, who goes by the nickname Zhujun, and two others with hearing loss. The trio have established a studio called Foru. It focuses on flowers, scented candles and handmade soaps, which are sold at Lili Time.
“Apart from my relatives, the people I connected with most in my hometown were other people with hearing loss,” says Xiaoyu. “If I hadn’t come to Shanghai, I would
be working in a