Times of Eswatini

THE WONDER

- BY MXOLISI DLAMINI

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in The Irish Midlands in 1862, the story follows a young girl who stops eating but remains miraculous­ly alive and well. English nurse Lib Wright is brought to a tiny village to observe eleven-year old Anna O’Donnell.

Ianother fresh week Like It Is feature. In this column we give advice on some of the do’s and don’ts while in the company of our partners, as well as while trying to approach a potential partner.

Yes, you heard it! Take out your note books and pens and get ready to take some notes. As promised in our previous episode with the phenomenal DJ Master P, this week we feature one of New Life Entertainm­ent artist Mandisa Mamba.

The One Hundred Billion Dollars (OHBD) hit maker shares with us things boys do that girls don’t like. Get ready to be educated!

T’S SPEAKING ILL OF THEIR EX

Whatever main reason saying this, still comes off as disrespect­ful. Comparing us is a big no. Yes we are all different in our own ways and boys can never change that with making comparison­s.

BAD HYGIENE

Putting little or no effort towards personal hygiene is not something to be proud of, it’s not a cool ‘boy thing’. A guy should ensure that he smells nice and keep himself clean at all times, not to attract attention but to ensure that the people around you get comfortabl­e while close to you. Bad hygiene is just a total turn off.

GETTING MAD AT US

Especially for not responding to your cat calling or for not wanting to date you. Men need to understand that we really do have the right to decline their advances and they are obliged to respect on your is for it our

TELLING US ‘YOU’RE NOT LIKE OTHER GIRLS’

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Trying to impress us by disrespect­ing and speaking ill of your ex or baby mama.

This actually reveals your character and makes the perfect example of how disrespect­ful you would be if things didn’t work out between us as well. Just be yourself, don’t try to impress its unnecessar­y.

A lot of guys assume that when we come to them with a problem, it’s because we want a solution. More than likely we just want to talk. If we specifical­ly ask for help, offer it. If not, then understand we just want to vent, be supportive and allow us to figure it out on our own.

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