Going through our cellphones - Chaboi
Tweek on ‘Straight Talker’ I am pleased to present to you a local producer, who goes by the name of Chaboi.
He is attached to Rare Jam Records, a local entertainment stable, which houses musicians such as Lution, Kena, Tella as well as Jael La Pour to name a few.
Chaboi has played a vital role in Lution’s recent album titled ‘Autonomy’. He produced most of the tracks that make up this well celebrated album and has also worked with the likes of South African-based local spitter Young Zesh.
He is the brains behind the production of Young Zesh’s song ‘Baxolele’, which was recorded at the Innovative Hub at the University of Eswatini, Kwaluseni Campus.
However, today we are not all about counting Chaboi’s accomplishments, he is here to tell us about some of the things that girls do, which boy’s don’t like. I hope you are all ready for this new and fresh episode of ‘Straight Talker’. Get your notebooks and take down some notes from Chaboi. I hope you enjoy.
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Whether or not couples should give each other allowances is a personal decision that depends on a variety of factors, including their financial situation, their individual expectations, values, communication and trust levels. Some couples choose to give each other allowances to manage their finances and ensure that each partner has some spending money discretionary
When they want girlfriend allowances.
without having to constantly ask for permission or approval. This can help to promote independence and autonomy within the relationship, and can also help to avoid conflicts over money. However, other couples may prefer to manage their finances in different ways, like pooling their resources and making joint financial decisions. Ultimately, the most important thing is for couples to communicate openly and honestly about their financial expectations, needs, goals, and to work together to create a financial plan that works for both partners.
When they want forgiveness after cheating.
Whether or not a couple should forgive each other after cheating, is a complex and deeply personal issue that depends on many individual factors, such as the nature and severity of the infidelity. The emotional health and history of the individuals involved and their respective desires and goals for the relationship. Forgiveness can be a powerful tool for healing and reconciliation, but it is not always easy or appropriate in every situation. It requires willingness to let go of anger, resentment and hurt, including working together to rebuild trust and intimacy. It also requires a commitment to addressing the underlying issues that contributed to the infidelity, such as communication challenges, un-met emotional needs, or dissatisfaction with the relationship.
Ultimately, the decision to forgive or not, lies with each individual. Some couples are able to successfully navigate the aftermath of infidelity and rebuild a stronger, more resilient relationship, while others may find that the breach of trust is too great to overcome. It is important for both partners to honestly assess their feelings and needs, and to communicate openly and respectfully with each other about their hopes and expectations for the future of the relationship.
When they go through our cellphones.
In general, whether or not couples should go through each other’s gadgets is a personal decision that depends on the dynamics of their relationship. Some couples are comfortable sharing everything, including access to their electronic devices, while others may prefer to keep some aspects of their lives private. It is important for each person in the relationship to respect the other’s boundaries and privacy concerns. If a couple is considering going through each other’s gadgets, it is important to have an open and honest conversation about why they want to do so and what they hoped to achieve. If the goal is to build trust or address concerns about infidelity or other issues, it may be helpful to work with a therapist or other professional to facilitate the conversation and ensure that both partners feel heard and understood.
Ultimately, the decision to go through each other’s gadgets should be made with the understanding that it may have consequences for the relationship. If one partner feels that their privacy has been violated or that they cannot trust the other, it could lead to resentment and damage the relationship. Therefore, it is important for couples to approach this decision thoughtfully and with mutual respect for each other’s boundaries.
Girls who go out clubbing.
Girls who go out clubbing and never come back the same night. Yes we all want to go out and have fun whether it’s a weekend, Monday therapy or whatever,but when she goes out and then comes back the next day then that can make anyone suspicious or paranoid.
Girls who hangout with bad girls.
We don’t like girls who hang out with bad girls or friends. It’s hard for a man to trust someone who hangs out with friends who do bad things like dating married men, dating for money, dating for a soft life, especially slay queens.
Well there you have it folks!
That was local producer and musician sharing with us some of the things that girls do which boys don’t like. I hope you were able to jot down some notes to refer to when the going gets tough since kuhle kushuba emjolweni.