The Fiji Times

Make families matter in 2022

... let us include giving, gratitude and goodness in our family lives

- Source: MOHAMMED HASSAN KHAN Voluntary Executive Director –Asia Pacific Forum on Families. (APFAM) Chairman- Pearce Home Board of Trustees Member –National Council for Older Persons (NCOP)

FAMILIES in Fiji are at the centre of events in 2022.

The challenges ushered in 2020 by COVID 19 requires a new path of national developmen­t as slow economic growth, and widespread changes in demography have forced significan­t social changes, which in turn are having an enormous impact on social health of families and family structures.

Community welfare, wellness and wellbeing in Fiji have traditiona­lly been the responsibi­lity of the family, however, these relationsh­ips have been disrupted, because of the COVID crisis, which not only affected the sources of income but the entire life systems.

Families have traditiona­lly played a vital role in teaching values to the younger generation and caring for children, the elderly and those family members who are physically or mentally ill.

However, loss of family support has left families vulnerable, in caring for the older persons and the persons with different abilities.

There is a need for the families and older persons to make the national social health as the priority in 2022.

Let us include giving, gratitude and goodness in our family lives.

There is a concept of giving and sharing in every faith and community, so let us revisit this beautiful concept and make it a part of our lives.

Beyond giving money and physical support, giving can also include the time you volunteer talking to someone to ease their fear, pain and anxiety.

Listening and consoling and reminding the afflicted, particular­ly the seniors, of God's mercy, all these are acts that are part of our spiritual values.

Gratitude is also an important part of family life which we need to bring back in our lives as we grapple with the various stages of the crisis.

A grateful heart that verbalises gratefulne­ss repeatedly, thanking God for all blessings, big or small, with soul deep appreciati­on and heartfelt gratitude will enjoy abundance of rewards.

Lastly, the practice of giving and gratitude will bring goodness in the family and community lives.

Let's do good deeds, only as much as we are able to, for the best deeds are those done regularly even it may be a little. Remember that the reward for doing good is nothing but GOOD.

The message of hope and relief, through giving, gratitude and goodness, are the most credible healing balm we can share with our fellow human beings.

This message of hope and promise, that this trial will end, is a message we all need to hear over and over again. It is said that after hardship there is ease.

Best wishes for 2022 to all families.

 ?? Pictures: JONACANI LALAKOBAU ?? Left: Members of the RAKO Pasefika and youths of Rotuma in a joyful mood during their New Year celebratio­ns in 2020.
Pictures: JONACANI LALAKOBAU Left: Members of the RAKO Pasefika and youths of Rotuma in a joyful mood during their New Year celebratio­ns in 2020.
 ?? Picture: SUPPLIED ?? Mohammed Hassan Khan with his granddaugh­ter.
Picture: SUPPLIED Mohammed Hassan Khan with his granddaugh­ter.

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