Barbara takes life in her stride

BARBARA Biuvakaloloma, 48, is a hardworking woman who never lets hardships stop her from excelling in life. Originally from Namacu in Koro, with maternal links to Pagopago, American Samoa, Barbara was exposed to the value of hard work and sharing the resources with the community at an early age. “Work was rostered and everyone had their fair share of work to do,” she said. “One could not just wake up from bed and walk straight to the breakfast table.” Her early years had a significant impact on her life and helped to mould her into a highly motivated and independent person.

She has worked in various positions, starting as an English teacher before joining the Pacific Community as a social citizenship education officer.

“I used to work for a UN agency, and learnt a lot during my time there.

“At work do what you can within the given time to the best of your ability and be a team player. When you go home, be totally present with your family and loved ones. I’ve never forgotten that,” she said.

“Thank you and God bless you Dr Juliet.

“Sometimes, we allow our work life to just take over us, leaving no time for family, friends and community.”

Barbara said her life was never without its challenges. At one point in her life she got mixed up in a real-life scenario that tilted her world on its axis and she couldn’t just forgive the person involved.

This particular incident caused her to become sick and admitted in hospital.

While contemplating her life on the hospital bed a friend visited her with a strong spiritual message.

When her friend left, she prayed for forgiveness — and she says she has never been sick since.

Barbara, who’s also a survivor of domestic violence, says a woman must never ever tolerate violence, especially for the sake of children.

“I was a victim of domestic violence and when it was happening to me, I continued in the toxic relationship thinking things would get better one day, but it didn’t.

“I finally found the courage to convince myself that, I needed to leave. Children should not grow up to think that violence is normal.

“I am glad I made that decision for myself and my children. I now work as an advocate to address the issue of violence against women and girls.”

When asked about her motivation in life, she said her children and two grandchildren were most important to her.

“Everyday I get to see and talk to them and this motives me. They are the reason why I need to be a role model in their lives.

“I witnessed how my parents worked hard to provide a good and wholesome life for me and my siblings and I understand why.”

Barbara’s advice for young people is that aside from being led by divine intervention, nothing replaces working hard and smart.

Having a good support network or safety net of family and friends is very important.

At work do what you can within the given time to the best of your ability and be a team player. When you go home, be totally present with your family and loved ones – Barbara Buivakaloloma –