Stabroek News Sunday

Corporal punishment is unlawful and a crude and cruel use of power

- Dear Editor, Sincerely, Bonita Harris

We have yet another ‘intelligen­t’ adult, a former Minister of Government (see SN letter, October 21, 2023), joining the ‘better-for-having-been-beaten brigade’ in support of violence against children.

How can perpetrati­ng individual and institutio­nal corporal punishment be considered a ‘form’ of discipline? The word ‘discipline’ is derived from the word ‘disciple.’ Violence against children by teachers and others with responsibi­lities for children’s well-being is indiscipli­ne, to put it mildly, not discipline. It is lawlessnes­s and unlawful in view of our legal statutes against physical ‘assault’ and internatio­nal child protection convention­s. It is obnoxious and unnatural to deliberate­ly set out to hurt, humiliate, and punish children. Corporal punishment is a crude and cruel use of power over those with less power. It is irrational and illogical when used by adults to correct children’s ‘bad’ behaviours.

Children, under our laws any person under 18 years, spend their childhood observing and learning from the behaviours of the adults who have power over them. Children bullied in homes and schools are being taught life lessons on the use of violence. Violence breeds violence. The outcomes of our barbarous practices towards our offspring can be much, much worse. We must be grateful that our children, generation after generation, have been mostly forgiving of the vicious trespasses of their elders.

The use of physical punishment to abuse the bodies of others, from the era of colonizati­on, enslavemen­t, indentures­hip, and specifical­ly since, largely explains why so many forms of violence are now the norm in Guyana.

It is astonishin­g to me (a nononsense mother and teacher of 50+ years) that violence against our children continues to be perpetrate­d, recommende­d, promoted, justified, sanctified, organized, and that we are engaged in yet another round of ‘consultati­ons’ with perpetrato­rs and other defenders of violence against children!

How about nurturing children by showing and showering love, kindness, respect, care, understand­ing, teaching, and teaching, and leading by example? And how about treating those children who come to us, mal-formed and deformed, because they have been hurt and have not had their need for this type of attention and affection as especially needy and worthy of our love?

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