French Women Don’t Sleep Alone

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says that they are all about mys­tery, se­duc­tion, and maybe a lit­tle sub­terfuge, any­thing to keep the other party in­ter­ested and al­ways guess­ing. Their motto, would be: ‘Love is some­thing that hap­pens while you are go­ing about your life’.

Less is Way More

Les femmes françaises limit what they ex­pose to their guy, and that drives up lust—for ex­am­ple, if your boyfriend sees your lady parts all the time, even­tu­ally, he’ll be­come de­sen­si­tised and stop fan­ta­sis­ing about rip­ping off your clothes to get a peek. “Most French women keep an air of mys­tery about them­selves, even if they’ve been with some­one for a long time,” Sci­olino says.

So wrap your­self in a towel post­shower, and hang your just-washed bras in your closet in­stead of on the door­knob where he’ll see them. You want your guy to as­so­ci­ate lin­gerie with your hot body—see­ing it as laun­dry takes away the al­lure. An­other part of main­tain­ing mys­tery is hold­ing back a bit dur­ing con­ver­sa­tions. While it’s hot to oc­ca­sion­ally send a sala­cious text (“I want you in­side me”), it’s of­ten more ex­cit­ing to be coy.

“French women are play­ful in con­ver­sa­tions,” Sci­olino says. Send a text to get your guy think­ing in a risqué way with­out be­ing overtly sex­ual (try a photo of the edge of your bare hip with the mes­sage, “Just a pre­view...”). That’s what makes him crave you in­tensely.

Don’t For­get the Naughty De­tails

Sci­olino also points out that most women tend to save sexy ex­tras like nice lin­gerie, a scarf and per­fume for spe­cial oc­ca­sions. In con­trast, French women in­cor­po­rate those things into their daily lives—they spend an es­ti­mated 20 per­cent of their in­come on lin­gerie, says Sci­olino. And that keeps de­sire sim­mer­ing. Wear­ing hot undies makes you feel sex­ier; as a re­sult,

you’ll act more se­duc­tive. In ad­di­tion to wear­ing Mi­randa Kerr-wor­thy un­der­things, spritz on a musky per­fume.

French women be­lieve that per­fume tells a lot about your per­son­al­ity, Sci­olino says, so find a sig­na­ture daily scent and your guy will come to as­so­ci­ate you with this sen­sual smell. Be­cause musky fra­grances have pheromones, they’ll lend you a temptressy vibe.

Ac­cord­ing to a sur­vey by Bri­tish sci­en­tists, 90 per cent of women feel more con­fi­dent and sexy when wear­ing fra­grance than they do with­out it. It can make you smell good, el­e­vate your mood and boost your con­fi­dence— all im­por­tant fac­tors when it comes to mak­ing a good first im­pres­sion, the in­ter­est­ing sur­vey adds.

The ul­ti­mate French trick to steal? Sci­olino calls it The Look: a sex­u­ally charged stare where you lock eyes for a few sec­onds, give a lit­tle half smile, and then glance away. You might have worked it on your guy when you ini­tially got to­gether, but it’s in­cred­i­bly pow­er­ful in an LTR. It con­veys long­ing, and a de­sire to be with only him. It makes him want to drag you to bed, this sec­ond.

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