Hindustan Times (Amritsar)

A complete guide to study in the US

- Nikita Goel & Sonal Pahwa letters@hindustant­imes.com The authors have cowritten the recently published ‘Not Born in the USA’

The lure of a foreign degree, global exposure, freedom of growth, and other career related opportunit­ies make the US an attractive overseas education destinatio­n.

Indian education system is quite different from other countries. We as a system focus intensely on studies vis-a-vis other countries, where students are expected to be involved in extracurri­cular activities as well. Your grades are just one part of the story. Apart from your studies, you are expected to be involved in social or cultural clubs, participat­e in athletics or sporting activities, arts or learn languages.

Managing day-to-day chores may seem daunting initially but this could be looked at as an opportunit­y to grow and expand your limited horizon. It is a chance for you to get out of your comfort zone and build long lasting relationsh­ips in life.

Beware that closer to your departure, there will be a number of relatives who will start advising you on various matters, even if they have never stepped out of their own city.

However, listen calmly as they are only expressing a concern for your well-being. Being a good listener is going to benefit you in the long run and you eventually realize its value once you land in an alien country.

You will be in a new environmen­t and different culture and it is extremely important to make some preparatio­n in advance. The first step is when one is packing their luggage you need to decide what to carry from home and what to buy there. For example, if you are going to the US, things like books, electronic­s, everyday clothes, personal utility items, home appliances and home furnishing­s are much cheaper. On the other hand, medicines, formal clothing and shoes are much cheaper in India.

Another major decision you will have to take is regarding accommodat­ion. There will be options for you where you can either stay in university accommodat­ion, or decide to stay off campus. Both options have their merits and demerits. Many colleges make it mandatory for first- year internatio­nal students to live in university accommodat­ion. In either case, you are likely to be sharing your living space with a stranger. Try to lay down a few ‘ground rules’ regarding visitors, chores, study time, sharing things, etc.

Managing your expenses is also important when you are studying in a foreign country. Most internatio­nal students go through “sticker shock”. The term for when you get surprised by discoverin­g high costs to products you need. Hence,it is crucial to chalk out a personal budget. It’s important to remember that you get huge discounts when buying in bulk. There may be many unexpected costs involved as well. For example, most first time visitors to the US get taken aback by the amount and frequency of tips that are expected for the services provided.

Tipping is often high and obligatory at most places.

It is also important that you follow general courtesies and basic manners while interactin­g with people.

Going forward, talking about personal sexual preference­s, political views, religious practices, one’s income and wealth are considered rude to talk about with someone, unless you’re very close to them.

Enjoy every bit of your stay there but don’t take personal safety lightly.

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