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Samaritan act actor Sonu Sood, 47,whose Good 2020’s Surprise Santa has been has made the biggest impression on his son and little helper, Eshaan, 18 Exclusive }
Growing up in the quaint city of Moga in Punjab, actor Sonu Sood watched his father serve langar to people outside his store, Bombay Cloth House, every week. His fondest childhood memory of his mother, a college professor in their hometown, is the one line she would often repeat: ‘Consider yourself successful the day you are able to help the needy when they aren’t expecting it from you, and if you’re able to change a life’.
These are words he’s carried with himself even today, in 2020, a year inwhich he emerged more heroic than any of the movie roles he’s ever played. This is a lesson he’s hoping to inspire in his sons (Eshaan, 18, and Ayaan, 12), leading by example.
The incident that triggered his efforts to help migrant workers travel back to their hometowns during the lock down was the same thing anyone who peeked onto any main road in any major city would have seen this March: people walking home. Sonu happened to be distributing food in Thane when he came across a bunch of 350-odd people making their way to Karnataka.
“I thought‘ we can’ t let them walk ’,” here calls. He applied for his first set of permissions and once they came through, there was no looking back. “I wasn’t trained or equipped to help so many people. But when you help people, that’s when you realise how powerful you can be. Especially when things reached the needy at the right time,” Sonu says, showing a glimpse of the ‘never-give-up-attitude’, which Eshaan says he admires about his dad. (See box on Page 14)
TRUE CALLING
Visibly uncomfortable talking about mortgaging eight properties in Mumbai in an effort to raise 10 cr ore for the needy, So nu calls it a personal and emotional step. “I always thought I came to this city (Mumbai) to become an actor. And yeah, I did become one and do movies in different languages, but when you do something like this that helps people, that’s when you connect with your soul. I feel this is what I came to Mumbai for,” says Sonu.
What of those who are trolling him? “You either react to people who point fingers or put the same effort into helping people. Instead of clarifying, get people to join the movement,” he says. Something he tried out with a few negative DM-ers. “Some joined and now they feel embarrassed about it. I am just glad to welcome them,” he smiles.
His kids too have started getting involved in his lock down projects, forwarding him messages they come across and following them up. But raising two boys in the age of social media is a huge responsibility. “There is so much exposure that empathy, goodness and hard work all need to be embedded in your system,” says the father.
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“The best way to influence anyone is to do it yourself!”
“I’VE TAUGHT MY BOYS THE IMPORTANCE OF TIME, SHARED MY EXPERIENCES AND STRUGGLE, SO THAT THEY DON’T SPEND THE SAME NUMBER OF YEARS LEARNING THE SAME LESSONS” —SONU SOOD
He has never raised his voice with his kids, but is always available with a wise word.
“I’ve taught them the importance of time, shared my experiences and struggle so that they don’t spend the same number of years on learning the same lessons. This generation is focused, equipped and trained,” he says.
A FAMILY THAT WORKS OUT TOGETHER
Sonu has now started working out with his 18-year-old-son Eshaan, even accompanying him for kick-boxing classes, and practices cricket with the younger one, 12-year-old Ayaan, who is the captain of his school cricket team. Eshaan, meanwhile, is looking to do business studies abroad, perhaps together with theatre.
“Both are tough fields. It’s tough and competitive. It doesn’t matter which family you belong to,” says Sonu, who believes education is crucial. “Education always helps. Not just for clarity in knowing what profession you want to get into but you are exposed to the world